9Lives Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 my ex called me today for some reason but guess what??? I don't even care. I answered and acted like it wasn't nothing. I'm just so ready to move on with my life that I just don't give a fk anymore. its truly his lost. I have been addicted to him and tryin to get back for so long. I read this book about how to break your addiction to someone and it has been working. I don't even know why he calls me. he has a girlfriend now, he don't want to get back together so I'm just like why bother to call me. but I'm gonna chill for now and when the right time comes, I'm gonna ask him what's up. he not getting no ass from me and I'm really ready to move on with my life. so I plan on talking to him soon just to get some things straight. I'm really getting stronger cause I don't have anymore hope. its all gone!
Sambo Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 my ex called me today for some reason but guess what??? I don't even care. I answered and acted like it wasn't nothing. I'm just so ready to move on with my life that I just don't give a fk anymore. its truly his lost. I have been addicted to him and tryin to get back for so long. I read this book about how to break your addiction to someone and it has been working. I don't even know why he calls me. he has a girlfriend now, he don't want to get back together so I'm just like why bother to call me. but I'm gonna chill for now and when the right time comes, I'm gonna ask him what's up. he not getting no ass from me and I'm really ready to move on with my life. so I plan on talking to him soon just to get some things straight. I'm really getting stronger cause I don't have anymore hope. its all gone! Yeeeee Haaaaaaw Congratulations !!!! My ex emails me and I respond all nice nice but I'm done with that too and the next email I'm ignoring.
Author 9Lives Posted August 18, 2010 Author Posted August 18, 2010 Yeeeee Haaaaaaw Congratulations !!!! My ex emails me and I respond all nice nice but I'm done with that too and the next email I'm ignoring. you got me cracking up! I'm just done with all the sadness and what not. it took a long time now I'm just wondering what the hell is his problem. pretty pretty soon, he not even going to get the time of the day.
Sambo Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 you got me cracking up! I'm just done with all the sadness and what not. it took a long time now I'm just wondering what the hell is his problem. pretty pretty soon, he not even going to get the time of the day. I'm sure there are a whole bunch of guys that would treat you a lot better then this bozo. So the sooner you forget he is even alive the faster the right one will show up.
YellowShark Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 Additionally you miss who you thought he was... not who he really is. Me too with my EX-of-seven-years.
sacg Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 Hi 9lives, Good for you, what was the book you read?
howlong Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 I read this book about how to break your addiction to someone and it has been working. Congrats! I can't wait to be where you are. What is the book you're reading, would love to know!
Author 9Lives Posted August 18, 2010 Author Posted August 18, 2010 Congrats! I can't wait to be where you are. What is the book you're reading, would love to know! its called how to break your addiction to a person by halrold halpern. now this book is for a person who is truly stck on someone and can't let them go. its not for if you are really fine. I was absolutely stuck. so anyway, he calls me last nite and I told him I was ready to let him go if there is no chance. he said there isn't. I said okay. that's fine. I'm not upset. he said where did this come from. I told him no where really. I'm just ready. so...guess who calls today...HIM! I'm about to shut it all down. not to hurt him or anything like that but to get him out my life. I'm ready. he don't deserve me. I always knew that but now I have the strength to change it. I'm happy
BeagleGal Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 Same here. I miss the sweet, romantic, funny, loving man I thought he was. Not the a**hole, manipulating, lying, cheating, deceiving, narcissistic, stupid, irresponsible sorry excuse of a man he really is. Additionally you miss who you thought he was... not who he really is. Me too with my EX-of-seven-years.
csman1411 Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 could you give some insight or some main points on what this book told you to do to break your addiction?
lonelygurl Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 its called how to break your addiction to a person by halrold halpern. now this book is for a person who is truly stck on someone and can't let them go. its not for if you are really fine. I was absolutely stuck. so anyway, he calls me last nite and I told him I was ready to let him go if there is no chance. he said there isn't. I said okay. that's fine. I'm not upset. he said where did this come from. I told him no where really. I'm just ready. so...guess who calls today...HIM! I'm about to shut it all down. not to hurt him or anything like that but to get him out my life. I'm ready. he don't deserve me. I always knew that but now I have the strength to change it. I'm happy I read this book years ago and have taken it out again to re-read to try to break my addiction to my X. It is a very good book.
howlong Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 Thanks for the info on the book....I'm definitely not ok, do feel "addicted", even though I know he's not right for me.
TouchedByViolet Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 That's awesome! The mental and emotional freedom resulting from getting over someone is peacefully wonderful. Who knew not giving a f@&k could feel so good
skydiveaddict Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 my ex called me today for some reason but guess what??? I don't even care. I answered and acted like it wasn't nothing. I'm just so ready to move on with my life that I just don't give a fk anymore. its truly his lost. I have been addicted to him and tryin to get back for so long. I read this book about how to break your addiction to someone and it has been working. I don't even know why he calls me. he has a girlfriend now, he don't want to get back together so I'm just like why bother to call me. but I'm gonna chill for now and when the right time comes, I'm gonna ask him what's up. he not getting no ass from me and I'm really ready to move on with my life. so I plan on talking to him soon just to get some things straight. I'm really getting stronger cause I don't have anymore hope. its all gone! That's awesome! could you teach me how to do that?
Sambo Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 Same here. I miss the sweet, romantic, funny, loving man I thought he was. Not the a**hole, manipulating, lying, cheating, deceiving, narcissistic, stupid, irresponsible sorry excuse of a man he really is. And let's not forget stupid, idiotic fool for letting such a great woman get away.
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