ShannonMI Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 So long story short, my boyfriend dumped me a few months ago after an 8 year relationship. I told him I didn't want to have any contact with him because I can't deal with seeing or talking to him. He insists we can be friends someday. I disagree, but whatever. We had a dog together and I kept him. After we first broke up he wanted visitation of the dog every week. At first I was ok with it because he was picking the dog up and dropping the dog off when I wasn't home. After like a month of this visitation crap and getting stupid texts about the dog, I told my ex to just stop with the visitation and we couldn't have contact. Period. He agreed and told me when I was ready to be friends and let him see the dog then to contact him. When I moved out of my ex's house, I emailed him a detailed list of my belongings that I needed him to bring to my new place. I would have just collected the things myself, but I didn't want to be in the house we shared. It took him forever to do this. One week he'd drop some stuff off, then he'd wait a few weeks, then he'd bring another load. He super busy with work and with his band, so I was understanding. As of a few weeks ago there was still some things that he had failed to bring. So I sent him ANOTHER detailed list of the rest of my things. Among the things on the list was my passport. I considered that the most important item on the list. I even told him in the email exactly where the passport was (in his lockbox). Well low and behold this last Saturday he dropped my things off at my house, but failed to bring the passport. He even put the printed list I emailed him on top of the pile of stuff as if to show me he had used it to collect my things. Everything was there except the most important item, the passport. What is the deal with this? Is he thinking I'm gonna contact him to get it? Is he hoping that I will? I'm soooooooo over it! I told him no contact and that is how it's going to stay. I don't need my passport right now, so I'm not going to call him and ask for it. What is his deal? How irritating this is becoming.
Nappeal Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 It honestly sounds as if he's looking for a reason for contact. Continue your own NC...reitterate w him that you need your passport and let it go.
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