JamesB Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Hey everybody, so I split with my girlfriend 2 and a half months ago. It was a pretty messy breakup. She dumped me saying it was all my fault as I was too full on and she said I was smothering her. Only to find out the real reason she wanted out is because she had met someone new. We met up about a month ago, her instigating it. She told me then that she loved me and wanted to be with me and would dump this other guy. I agreed like a fool as I love her. She never broke it off with the other guy and cancelled on me whenever we arranged to meet up again after that. so I sent her some messages telling her how I felt, how she was immature etc to play me like a flute! I never heard from her after that and in a way I was quite relieved as now I knew where I stood and I could start to get over her. Everything was going great, I feel better, I'm happy again and the best bit is we used to work together but 3 weeks ago I got a transfer so I never have to see her now as seeing her everyday was really really hard. Today however she sent me a text saying can we meet to exchange some stuff she still has of mine and I have of hers. I really didn't think we'd meet again as the stuff is quite trivial, a jacket and some sunglasses nothing that can't be replaced. Now I don't know if I should meet her? It'll just put be back to square 1 will it not? I don't want to feel like I did a month ago. Why does she want to meet? Is it actually to get her stuff or does she want to see me? I'm getting confused again. This girl has caused me nothing but heartbreak yet Im still crazy about her! What should I do????
goodgrief Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Send her a text. "No thanx. I will send you your stuff. Feel free to dispose of mine." And leave it at that. Do not reply to any subsequent requests to meet up, chat, talk over old times, take the splinter out of her foot, change the oil in her car, wash the windows of her place or anything else...!
lalalandman Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 ^^^ Agreed! Let her know you'll pack her **** just as good as you used to pack her.
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