JamieA Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 ...The most craziest thing ive seen written here on LS, hands down. Even after everything that's happened she's so convinced so strongly in her delusion there's love between her and the OM! unbelievable! Once word gets out about how this woman slept with her friends husband, her name will be mud in the streets. none of her female or mutual friends will trust her around their husbands after this. Mark my words. if she doesnt end this infatuation now. it'll ruin her life. But if she wants to ruin her life on her own believing her own delusion then she should divorce her husband and be done with it. He deserves better than a crazy woman who cannot be faithful. Who are you talking to?
vodkafan Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 Xiao, you are NOT a piece of ****. Those feelings you described very well are what my wife went through for three months , being pulled apart emotionally split between me and her other guy, before I found out. You had integrity to tell your husband and he has been big to forgive. I feel sorry that your friend has been hurt. I know what that feels like. Really the future depends a lot on the character of the OM. The solution we worked out for our situation would most likely not be acceptable for you. Be very careful right now is my advice. Is this OM contacting you behind everyone's back? Is he really thinking about anyone elses feelings except his own? Sure you need to hear what he wants to say but be careful about the good guy you are hurting and maybe considering throwing away.
Fieldsofgold Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 My guess is, the OM wants to keep you as a piece on the side. Otherwise, he would have already manned up and left his wife, and come to take you away with him. My guess is that he will ask you to continue the A, and "wait for him." Please don't be a fool - AGAIN.
Dexter Morgan Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 How can I make anything right again? it will never be 100% right with your H. you can't erase the thoughts of what you did to him from his head. but if you want to attempt to make it "right", then you cut complete ties with this MM and his friend, because there is no way you 2 will ever be friends again, not truly. 2nd, you act like a wife....and no putting yourself in positions where you can mess around with other men. thats about as simple as it can get. There really is nothing else you can do but act like a wife. Oh you can apologize till the cows come home and tell your H that you love him 50 times a day. But in the end its your actions that speak volumes. honestly, if I were your husband, I'd have asked you to leave and gotten an attorney. Your husband is a good man and willing to keep the family together. So don't spit in his face by staying in contact with the married jerk. cut contact immediately.
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