Lonelyguy123 Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 I broke up with my gf today because my friends were making fun of me every second because I loved and cared about her. There was no sex and we were rarely alone but we could feel in our hearts we were meant to be but I want her back. I want a soulution so I won't get made fun of but I can keep her so I could use some guidence for my problem I don't want her to start dating other guys because I truly love her and want to propose but now I'm lost. I need some one with a solution
GrayClouds Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 I broke up with my gf today because my friends were making fun of me every second because I loved and cared about her. There was no sex and we were rarely alone but we could feel in our hearts we were meant to be but I want her back. I want a soulution so I won't get made fun of but I can keep her so I could use some guidence for my problem I don't want her to start dating other guys because I truly love her and want to propose but now I'm lost. I need some one with a solution You may have just learn a really hard lesson about being true to yourself. Either be proud of who you are and committee to the things that you value or give up the girl (if you even have a chance to get her back). If you friends can not respect your realtionship with her then you need better friends. I suspect your very, very young but if your going to start doing mature things like having a girlfriend that you have to start behaving in a way that understand how hurtful to people you claim to care for is. Understand as much bad you are feeling right now, she is feeling worst.
D-Lish Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Grow some balls and stand up to your friends. Your friends razzed you because they don't have what you do- in doing so they coaxed you into breaking up with the girl you love. How ridiculous of you to cave into that kind of peer pressure.
Fruitpunch Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 propose!!! lol Dude, send her a text apologising for being an ass, say you are going to give her some space and leave it a few weeks til u get your head straight. If you have already bombarded her with texts then tell her you accept its over, and go NC. dont ****ing propose though lol, she will run faster than an olympic sprinter, jeez
Author Lonelyguy123 Posted August 17, 2010 Author Posted August 17, 2010 Thanx grayclounds I'll try what u said
Nappeal Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 (edited) Really..I cannot believe you'd do that to your GF because you were 'getting made fun of'. Either you've really got to learn the true meaning of loving someone, learning to be true to yourself, or find yourself a new group of friends. Explain to her you love her ad you want her back. Plain and simple. Edited August 17, 2010 by Nappeal WAY too many spelling errors!
EthanH Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 WTF?? Are you 14? lol out of interest, why is 14 always the age used to joke in this situation? ok as to the impending issue: 1) you sound very very young, so don't even think about proposing. 2) I think you need to stop seeing your friends opinions as important, and ffs have some respect for this girl, how would you like to be in her position. If you cannot understand that, you just need to take some time to grow up, although tbh I doubt she can be as immature as you seem to be, so maybe she will see past it. I mean, you do realise that you sound very very immature, right?... how old are you anyway?
LostInTurn Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 You just learned a life lesson. This life is yours. Not your friends, not your families... yours! I cannot emphasize that enough. You are going to have to make choices in life, some big and some small. Some will be life lessons which you take through life and some will only stay with you for a short while. When you are dealing with someone else's feelings... listen to yourself. You're the only one who knows what is best for you. When you involve yourself with someone else, remember your actions and words will impact them. Don't discount the things you say and do. I do not know what you said to her, but I can imagine how she would feel even if you said simply that you couldn't talk to her anymore. Friends can be very judgmental. Friends can be persuasive. You need to make your own decisions and not listen to someone else unless the situation really calls for that. I don't know if you can salvage what you have done. The first step. Understand she probably feels terrible right now (as others who responded told you as well) You can only change things going forward. As for proposing. That's not an instant fix. There is a lot of rebuilding which needs to be done before you could do anything like that.
GrayClouds Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 propose!!! lol Dude, send her a text apologising for being an ass, say you are going to give her some space and leave it a few weeks til u get your head straight. No TEXT Apologies, real men (women) have the balls(ovaries) to do it in person.
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