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My girlfriend and I recently had a big falling out she has been a jerk all summer. We went out one night and she was a total jerk to me, the next day she said she didnt want to talk to me and for 3 days we did not speak. Today to get my mind off her I went to a local basketball court and I see her car in front of this guys house. I then learn she was on his boat all day long with her friends and other guys. I just feel like she doesn't give a crap about me/us. I assume we are broken up even though it hasn't been discussed.

 

I am just disappointed that she hasn't tried to contact me for days but she is going to other guys houses and boat parties. It just hurts a lot. We dated for 4 years and never thought something like this would happen.

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I think you've been on this board off and on enough to know the next step you must take. You contact her one last time and say "I need some space, I won't be contacting you anymore." That is your "closure", that is all you get. Then you drop off the face of the earth to her. Complete and utter silence from your end. Solid NC.

 

You do this now, you do it like a man and show her no emotion.

 

IF, in a week, a month or a year, she comes CRAWLING back, crying and begging, THEN you decide what to do with her. I suggest rejecting her because, really? You only get about three years of good relationship out of a woman anyway and you went four already.

 

Good luck.

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Sorry to hear that something like that did happen to you. I'm facing down a similar situation myself that is going to come to a head tomorrow. Spriggig speaks truth, go NC on the woman and work on your crossover down at the basketball court. We've only got about 9 weeks until the start of the NBA season anyway!

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Sounds rough.

 

I think she has cold on you while she checks out other possibilities. Time to check out completely. Its hard to do I know but you will feel better in the long run if you take control and play it out your way.

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