Your Favourite Smile Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 I a few weeks back 'clicked' with someone online, we had been chatting frequently to eachother, and there was a clear spark. I (perhaps stupidly) got myself reeally into the idea of a LDR with him, and it was involved in our conversations.. I was really keen. I admit, this LDR thing is new to me personally.. This guy appeals to me a lot and we had found out so much in common with eachother over the past weeks. I even discovered i had relatives near him. Seemed too good to be true. Our interest in eachother seemed mutual, he was/is definitely attracted. He gave me his number- another thing which reassured me. Aside from all this.. a couple of days ago i noticed he changed his relationship status and is now with someone. Am i missing something?! He seemed genuinely into me, and now it seems he has opted for someone more close by, out of convenience perhaps? I feel hurt because i definitely saw something coming from this, and he knows for sure that i was interested. He seemed confused and wishes to remain as online friends.. It somehow hurts because it feels as though HE thinks being a certain distance over in a different country means that its less significant? It may be easy to forget that we are real people talking over the internet and feelings can still be felt. Am i being too dramatic? i hoped to learn more about him and take it further but im stopped in my tracks if he is currently in a relationship. My feelings were/are so strong right now and im thinking about continuing contact with him if he wishes to talk..
Raderick Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 It's quite possible because he has never seen you in person and thus doesn't know if the spark that you feel online may be duplicated in person.
aerogurl87 Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 It's quite possible because he has never seen you in person and thus doesn't know if the spark that you feel online may be duplicated in person. This ^^^ I met my boyfriend online and honestly I was worried whether or not the spark would be there in person before we met a little bit in the early stages of our getting to know one another. So it's highly possible that he thought the same and decided it was too much of a gamble to take.
HeavenOrHell Posted August 21, 2010 Posted August 21, 2010 I agree, you don't know if the spark is there until you meet, plus LDR's don't suit everyone.
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