In_Repair Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 Is it acceptable for a BS to phone AP and tell them that the A has ended? Would any OW/OM want to hear that they had been (hate the term) thrown under a bus? Or would they hope and expect the MP to tell them face to face so they can have closure? Absolutely. I see no problem with a BS calling the AP and telling them that the affair is over and to keep their ass away from their spouse. They have every right. I don't agree with the idea that the marriage is between "them" and the affair is between "them". It's a cop out. It's called a love triangle for a reason. That's like saying "yeah, I screwed his wife... but I would never tell... I couldn't do that to the guy".
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