bdb122187 Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 I dated this beautiful, intelligent, funny girl from sophmore year of high school until the beginning of college (2 1/2 yrs). I broke up with her 5 years ago because she seemed distant after her uncle died, which is understandable, but even for months after it happened she just seemed uninterested, even though she didn't really know him that well (May he still RIP). We still remain friends, obviously not as close as we use to be but still friends either way. I've dated other girls since and when I was having problems w/ these girlfriends I would call her for advice. We talk every now and then just to say hi and to see how we're doing but there's just so much I want to tell her without making her feel awkward and every time we talk she just doesn't sound too happy anymore. She hasn't dated anyone since her and I went out. I know she prolly isn't hung up on me anymore but even after 5 years of not being w/ her, I'm still deeply in love w/ her and she's always on my mind, even when I dated these other girls I would compare every one of them to her. Should I even bother going after her after all these years? She's the kind of person that when her minds made up, that's it. I've asked her out to lunch maybe once or twice because I don't want her to feel like I'm taking her on a date after this amount of time. If I did want to go back after her, how would I even start?
ShannonMI Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 I think you should talk to her and get a feel for how she's feeling. How she feels toward you. Maybe tell her how you feel as well, but don't go to crazy with it. Don't tell her you love her and all that. Just tell her that you've always had strong feelings for her and you still do even after all these years and see what she says.
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