Nappeal Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 This week I have a prenatal appt, made specifially for when X can make time in his schedule. He's only made it to the first 2 appts, w excuses made for not attending the rest; I am now 3 mnths from my due date. We have gone now...about a week and a half w NC. I have the entire day off and was considering offering him a ride to and from, more so he doesn't have an excuse to not show up. I am just about 100% positive he'll let me know he can't show up for whatever reason, especially if I offer the ride, but I'd really like for him to show up for once w no good excuse for not doing it. Of course I'm still upset about the breakup, but I'm not crazy emotional over things, so I can't honestly say there's a motivation to see him behind asking (I've already asked myself if that's really why I want him to come). My heart won't be broken if he says he won't show or doesn't want a ride since this is will not be the first time he'll blow me off. I really do want him to show up for once tho, but being NC, w which he seems quite ok w, would it even be a good idea to ask? I'd love some advice!
Don Ho Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Naaa. Don't bother. You don't need him there and you're just looking for an excuse to contact/see him. You're a big girl. Handle it on your own.
Author Nappeal Posted August 16, 2010 Author Posted August 16, 2010 I may be...I started writing out a text w no intention to send it. I realized that that's what I was doing; looking for a reason to see him. I'd look like I'm reachin pretty far for his attention, NTM, every other time he never showed up, I was really upset. I'm even debating whether or not to even 'remind' him of the appt since he's never shown up anyway.
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