GF Bad attitude -

[K D]

So my gf and I have been living together for 4 years dating for a bit longer. She is not happy like she used to be I don't know if this is a phase but its a long one. I know her work has been stressing her out a bit. For about a year now she has been treating me badly. She snaps on me for things that are not in my control for example she will come to sit on the couch i'm on and her blanket she is dragging behind her knocks something on the table and snap at me for having it there...basically she handles her emotions childishly. I like her for many reasons but i will never be happy if she stays like this. Any time I try to talk about something that bothers me about our relationship I get "whatever your just being a jerk" I left her one day after she refused to talk about things she takes way to personally I'm not trying to attack her I'm just trying to let her know I don't like being treated that way. I talked to her on the phone from my dads place for awhile and told her I couldn't continue like this and she cried and apologized and things were good for maybe a week before this behavior continued. she lets little things put her in a bad temper its just hard to be around her like that. I like surrounding myself with positive people I've let all the negatives loose in my life yet she seems like the only person in my life (outside of work lol) who is negative. I've gone through tremendous personal growth over the last year mainly because I want to grow as a person to help me in my business and she is not willing to grow. I sometimes think what it would be like to be with other people and if I would be happier. We rent the basement apartment from her mothers house if I left they would be kinda screwed for $$ since I'm splitting rent with her. I feel like I have nowhere to go if I leave so maybe thats why I've been pushing my decisions aside. Her family likes me and my family likes her and they are wondering when we will get married I'm just not sure if this will last forever. What should I do?

[Kachunk]

Sounds similar to what my wife has been doing to me. She is likely resentfull of you because she is unhappy with the relationship. My advice is seek counseling to help get the issues to the surface then figure out how to deal with them.

[young&inlove]

I have had the same attitude over the last while twords my husband also. I didnt really start to think about it until a couple of weeks ago. I have some random questions for you though. Did she happen to chand birth control around the time she started to act this way? Was there something that happened, such as one of you cheating? My husband cheated on me and that is why I was being such a biznach to him. I resent him for what he did to me.