Smoove Posted February 16, 2004 Posted February 16, 2004 im finding it so hard 2 cope, im finding it so hard 2 sleep and get out of bed. Im trying so hard but i feel it is 2 no avail. Im so scared that i may never get over this and that my ex will hav found a new guy. Its so hard 2 enjoy things.
dario Posted February 16, 2004 Posted February 16, 2004 Calm down. You can do this, Smoove. Just say 'to hell with her', 'to hell with her'. You can do it.
Author Smoove Posted February 16, 2004 Author Posted February 16, 2004 5 months but i saw here last week and we had sex. She said she doesnt wanna be in a relationship nemore. It hurts bro it hurts, she also said stop trying to get back in2 my life. I want 2 say so many things 2 her, but i choose 2 say nuthing. I guess shes doin well getting over me, but it hurts me knowing that shell be on a dating frenzy. It killing me.
dario Posted February 16, 2004 Posted February 16, 2004 Man, it's her loss....it's that simple. It's her loss. Don't bring yourself down. At the end of the day - it's her loss. I know it's so easy for me to say....but you know what? Maybe you should call her and just say...'I wanna tell you somethin...it's your loss. I've come to realise that. Enjoy your life.' And hang up. You don't need that kind of girl in your life....man, I know that you think you do...because it might be exciting and the like....but I say, f*ck it.
Darkangelism Posted February 16, 2004 Posted February 16, 2004 You cant have contact...sex with her, it wont let you heal.
carla Posted February 16, 2004 Posted February 16, 2004 Why are you having sex with her? Your just hurting yourself all over again. If it was her that initiated it, shes using you for a boy toy. You deserve so much more. If your the one that initiated it and it was consentual then she must have something for you, unless she's a sl*t, and then again you deserve so much more. Stop seeing her. When you have a cut do you take a knife and recut it once it starts to heal? No you put a bandage on it and keep it clean and take care of it, so it doesn't get infected. So why are you tearing away at your broken Heart? Put a bandage on it (Friends are great support) Keep it clean (Stay away from her) and take care (Go out and enjoy life again do things that make you happy) Slowly your broken heart will mend. It'll have a few scars but it'll still love again.
dario Posted February 16, 2004 Posted February 16, 2004 Carla - spot on. Smoove...as I've told you I dated a chick like this once and she was ripping me to shreds man. Just toying with me. Using me to the nth degree. And looking back I realise what an idiot I was. In all honesty, she was, and excuse me for this - DIRT. She's recently started emailing again/calling me...she's with some guy who she's gonna marry and she is having 2nd thoughts. I'll play the social pleasantry tact to a point....I won't tell her to f*ck off...but there is no way in the world that she's going to come back into my life in the flesh. It's as if all of her games are so far in the past that they don't exist to her. It's a two way street...I knew I was being played and I just kept going back. Walk away, Smoove...get the hell away from her. She ain't worth it.
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