leal10 Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 Hi! I have broke up with my girlfriend 12.07.2010. I was mad about some unimportant thing,and she called me 20 times and apologize to me,she said it's so not important stuff,not worth of arguing,that she loves me the most in the world and that she want to talk to me and stay with me for the res of her life.That day i didn't want to talk,so i came to her next day in a morning,trying to talk,we had small argument and i drove her home.the same day i came to her to talk about stuff,and invited her to go to the beach,so we can have a calm talk and sort thing out.We had some thing before,but many of them we solved.Suddenly from all that nice girl,in few hours she changed to horrible person.she said that she don't want to talk,that she would rather be with other guys than me again.So i went home.14.07.2010 i noticed she visited my website 10 times in a day,so i wrote on a chat few things..she replied but soooooooo cold.She even wrote on you tube some comment for some song,and she mentioned that i broke her heart.I know what it is.When i was angry that day,i said i will be with other girl,and that made her veeeeeeeeeery dissapointed and angry.i told her later that i was just mad,but it didnt helped.she is very stubborn,and she admitted that.I really love her,and would really be with her,but it doesn't seem that she said that thing,about beeing rather with other guys than me,and it doesn't seem that those words were said because of angryness,like i said.it looks like she really mean it...:HOW CAN SOMEONE WANT TO BE WITH YOU FOR THE REST OF THE LIFE,AND WANT TO TALK ABOUT NOT IMPORTANT THING A 12.07.2010 at 17:00, and don't want to talk and want other guys at 13.07.2010 at 08:30???????????PLEASE EXPLAIN???OR TELL ME ANY ADVICE???? HOW TO GET HER BACK,BEFORE SHE REALLY MEET SOMEONE????WHAT WOULD BE THE BEST TO DO,SAY,NOT DO...??? THANKS IN ADVANCE
Fruitpunch Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 She is hurt, and probably taking **** advice from friends. I would leave it a few days before doing anything, and get some advice from here on where to go next
Don Ho Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 Well Leal, the saying goes "Hell hath no fury like the scorn of a woman". You want to get a woman really mad? Then turn her down for sex or ignore her when she wants to talk or tell her you're going to sleep with other women or cheat on her. She turned a 180 because you pissed her off with your immature comment. Take my advice and stick to it: you need to back way, way off. DO NOT contact her at all! Give her some time and space and see what she does. Hopefully she will cool off and start to miss you. Don't worry about her meeting someone else, even if she did it would be a rebound and those hardly ever work out. You chasing her and pushing her because you're worried about her meeting someone will do the opposite of what you want: push her away!! Don't do that. Hang in there.
Author leal10 Posted August 15, 2010 Author Posted August 15, 2010 i don't think she has someone particular or is interested...but eventually it will happen...till than...it would be great if she would miss me that much,that she would contact me...if she would be with anyone else...i would never be again with her...i don't need that ****. she checked my website today 5 times...i am on NC from yesterday...and it's quite hard...especially cause i have a hard job...and this situation with missing her sooo much is killling me...there are moments when i feel better...but than again i remember how close we were and all the other stuff...i have read that i should remember bad stuff about her if i want to move on...but its very hard...i will stick to NC i hope...but she is soooooo stubborn...i don't think she will contact me...even if she would miss me a looooot...even if she would...i think it wouldn't be in the way of getting back together...i hope i am wrong....but i have a bad feeling...it looks like she is really devastated with what i said...but if she don't want to be with me anymore..i will survive...eventually i will get over her and find someone that want to be with me,in hard times too.hope for more replies from you guys and girl...thank...bye
Author leal10 Posted August 16, 2010 Author Posted August 16, 2010 yesterday at night my ex wrote "i am drunk.hahahah...to be continued:laugh:" on msn status...eventhough she has only 3 friends..and they are all female which i know...today she wrote on msn status "lonely, i'm ms. lonely,i have nobody,for my own:laugh:"... and on youtube channel she has...she wrote "that it sucks that she love me,but we are different and what can she do than to move on as le ann rhimes said in some song".... what should all that mean? i am on NC for 2 days...you think she will try to get back or she is gone forever???? please tell me your opinions...regards...
Author leal10 Posted September 14, 2010 Author Posted September 14, 2010 hi i got back with my girl... now i have totally different question? WHAT DOES IT MEAN?? i left my girl yesterday... and today on msn (She has only 1 friend) (i know cause i have access)...she wrote...what goes around,comes around...i don't get it...??? she did nothing for us to be together...when i told her that i cant be with her anymore...she wanted to explain...and when i said...i don't want any excuses she said ok...and went to sleep...next morning she went home and thats it...she was totally cold...and now she is writing this kind of stuff (WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND),eventhough she has only 1 friend...and eventhough she writes msn status only when i break with her...she never write it when we are together...what does it mean??? plus, i have some business website that i am creating it currently,and she is watching it 5x a day...why??? if she is so cold and does nothing for us to be together??? any ideas???
Thorgs Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 Probably seeing if she can get a reaction from you and checking up on you, etc. There isn't much detail to go by, but you said you broke up with her a 2nd time so why are you so concerned? If you aren't, then just go NC and focus on yourself. ღ
Author leal10 Posted September 14, 2010 Author Posted September 14, 2010 i think similar to you... she is kind of a cold-hot girl...she thinks one thing now, but tomorrow she thinks totally different... she is trying to be angry at me...and it is something she always do...whenever i am sad or angry...she turn in it...and behave like she is angry or said...i guess she makes break up easily this way... ????? all in all i found that reading her msn status is just making me all new questions and filling my head which is already in hard state...so i wont read her status anymore...i just wish i found some girl so i will turn my thinking to her and not to my ex... well i am not sorry for breaking with my ex cause i know i deserve better and i can't be treated the way she treated me...but i am sooo always optimistic...and part of me still thinks...THINGS WILL GET BETTER...silly me
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