9Lives Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 well my ex just called me and I just looked it. my heart started beating and my eyes got big! its hard as hell even when u know they deserve to be ignore. hell he or she has ignore you so many freaking times! why the fk do I feel a little bad for ignore him for a change? what is that sht!!!!???? what does that say about me? its just so crazy. but guess just happen,....i stood up for myself for once. I didn't cave and jump to the phone. I should be proud of myself but I'm feel bad instead. that sucks!
skydiveaddict Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 I know just how you feel. but keep ignoring or you will get your heart broken all over again.
Author 9Lives Posted August 15, 2010 Author Posted August 15, 2010 I know just how you feel. but keep ignoring or you will get your heart broken all over again. I need all the encouragement I can get!! keep talking please! anyone
skydiveaddict Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 (edited) You said anyone so I'll post again. I got home from Afghanistan believing she still loved me she said she did, but she completely disappeared. Not one phone call, not one text, no email ,nothing. She was my life. It crushed me. I'm still getting over it but slowly healing. I will be alright and so will you. Just hang close to your friends, cry when you need to (I did) and believe that you will get through this 'cause you will. Go out and have some fun. You will be ok. Take care Ps> I get crap about this all the time here, but it's true. If you go skydiving (take some friends along) you will have the biggest rush of your life, and for that brief moment while you are in the air nothing else will matter. You will want to do it again, you will make a whole new circle of friends and it will open other opportunities for you. Edited August 15, 2010 by skydiveaddict
seibert253 Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 Time and distance my friend. The only thing that heals a broken heart. Well, finding another girl to start spending you time with also helps. Look, when you were a kid and you fell off your bike did you just give up, No? Whether it was right after you fell, or sometime later, you got back on the bike and eventually you stayed up and rode it like you owned it. Same thing here, you've fallin off, dust yourself off and get right back on. Success consists of getting up one more time than you fall. Get out there and find a women that's even better than this last one. She's out there, go get her. Here's my experience. Several years, well really it's MANY years ago I was gunning hard for this girl. She played around with me knowing I was falling for her. Eventually she started blowing me off and I got the hint. Ended up going out with one of her co-workers and as they say, the rest is history. Recently I saw her and we got together and talked. She's going through Divorce number two and it's a real nasty one. During our talk, one of the things she asked is "why didn't you choose me"? I told her I did, but she treated my like garbage and blew me off. She apologized and said "I really made a big mistake". I told her "yes, you did", and that's how it ended. Now, I'm better off because of this girl's "mistake" and she's not. Look at your situation in that light. She's making the mistake, you are going to be better off in the long run. Success is the best revenge. Peace and Good Luck.
Username37 Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 well my ex just called me and I just looked it. my heart started beating and my eyes got big! its hard as hell even when u know they deserve to be ignore. hell he or she has ignore you so many freaking times! why the fk do I feel a little bad for ignore him for a change? what is that sht!!!!???? what does that say about me? its just so crazy. but guess just happen,....i stood up for myself for once. I didn't cave and jump to the phone. I should be proud of myself but I'm feel bad instead. that sucks! I remember when I ex texted me a few weeks ago. My eyes were WIDE open and my heart was pounding like crazy. Then I got mad because I was so tempted to break NC. The text was asking when we will be friends again. How selfish of her. And I still love my ex so much. But by contacting them, it shows they still have power over you. And do you really want to hear about their awesome life without you? HELL NO SON! By not responding back, the ball is slowly rolling to your court. The only time to contact is when they make it obvious that they want to reconcile or when you officially have NO feelings for her. You know what it says about you? That you're a strong individual and you don't need your ex. Props to you man and good luck
TaraMaiden Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 Time and distance my friend. The only thing that heals a broken heart. Well, finding another girl to start spending you time with also helps. Look, when you were a kid and you fell off your bike did you just give up, No? Whether it was right after you fell, or sometime later, you got back on the bike and eventually you stayed up and rode it like you owned it. Same thing here, you've fallin off, dust yourself off and get right back on. Success consists of getting up one more time than you fall. Get out there and find a women that's even better than this last one. She's out there, go get her. if you're talking to 9lives - I think you'll find 'he' is a 'she'....
Author 9Lives Posted August 15, 2010 Author Posted August 15, 2010 if you're talking to 9lives - I think you'll find 'he' is a 'she'.... YES guys, I'm a woman!! lol
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