Daniela Posted February 15, 2004 Posted February 15, 2004 H there, I have a problem and I don't have anybody to talk to. Yesterday I almost broke up with my boyfriend just for a small mistake that I did..anyway, he said that he still like me and he is still in love with me but he just want to remain us as friends and not to be in a relationship anymore. I love him very much and being just friends with him I think it's gonna hurt me more so I need an advise from you! Thanks very much!!!
morrigan Posted February 15, 2004 Posted February 15, 2004 I'd just be honest. You should respect his feelings about the permanency of the breakup, on the other hand, I think some time and space away from each other might help. Not to be cruel, but being friends with someone you are no longer involved with is easier said than done, and there's no law saying you have to keep in contact with a past boyfriend. Establishing a friendship at this point would cause you more harm than good. Good luck!
UCFKevin Posted February 15, 2004 Posted February 15, 2004 If you don't feel like you can do it, then say so. Screw it. Why should you suffer just for him to feel better? To hell with that. If you can't be just friends, then DON'T be just friends. I've never been able to do that. I'm sure many others are the same way. There's nothing wrong with saying "No" to that.
Pretteangel Posted February 16, 2004 Posted February 16, 2004 Most fo the time a guy tells you "let's just be friends" he is done with you so far as a relationship and sometimes there is already someone new in the background. What men mean by "let's just be friends" translate I like to keep you on my back burner in case nobody better comes along". I don't believe in friendship after a break up. Once a break up is done, it is time to move on and leave the past behind. After all an ex is an ex for a reason. Bottom line this is your choice and whatever makes you feel comfortable, do. Good Luck!
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