silentnights Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 Ive started to have an affair with this married man, is very odd behaviour for me and im going through a lot head and emotional stuff, ive started a blog on my experience if anyones interested to view. What are the pitfalls?
jj33 Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 Have you read the boards? Unless you are very clear that you are happy with the way it is and have NO expectation of it being anything more in the future and are basically happy with no strings attached relationships you are heading for a BIG fall.
Author silentnights Posted August 14, 2010 Author Posted August 14, 2010 I am very aware of this, maybe this is what I want, just trying to work it out.
jj33 Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 You have to know yourself really well. Are you the sort of person who can compartmentalize your emotions? If you fall in love with him are you ready for the fact that even if he loves you too he is likely to remain married and you will find yourself like so many others (including me) you may end up really hurt? Think hard about it and if you arent SURE you are going to be able to compartmenalize then dont do it.
bentnotbroken Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 Ive started to have an affair with this married man, is very odd behaviour for me and im going through a lot head and emotional stuff, ive started a blog on my experience if anyones interested to view. What are the pitfalls? 1)He is married 2)He has a wife 3)He is cheating on that wife 4)He is lying to that wife
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