kozanostra Posted February 15, 2004 Posted February 15, 2004 Ok I have one qestion to ask the love pros like yourself. My grilfriend who broke up with me 3 months ago, wants me back, and says she loves me. But let me tell you some details about our relationship. I am 20 she is 18, she is my good friends syster, first I met her when she was goint to USA as a scholarship recepient, as I was former recepinet of the scholarship I was training the group of students for their future studies. After a year she came back, and we kind of clicked, but I was confused because she was my friends sister, Although we dated for few times I was always on a leash of contiousness (Because of my understanding of friendship), later she told her brother that we were dating and he answered that I was the only person who he could trust his syster and he was happy we were together. We were together for 6 months, I meen I am a double major student, also working she is a student of good University so we couldn't spend much time together, but still it was the best time in my life. Ok I told her that I loved her in two months of our relationship, but she said that she should know me better before she falls in love, well I said ok. (For information she is very beatifull, swimmer). Ok during next few months I had to travel lot abroad, and we had good time always when I was in the country. but when I told her that I loved her and she asnwered same thing again, I decided to brake up for the good of my respect and friendship with her and her brother. I didn't want her to feel low, in front of our mutual friends (that we have a lot) so basically I made her to brake up with me, for her not to feel so bad. now after three months of no contact, (I even missed friend gatherings because of her) we meet with friends and at midnight she comes to me and starts crying saying that wants us to be together again. (for info non of us has dated this 3 months, basically we were both histericlly busy with study, work and stuff) Ok I am basically over her, but at the same time have great respect and (friendly care) for this person what should I do?
matrixgenius Posted February 15, 2004 Posted February 15, 2004 Ok I am basically over her, but at the same time have great respect and (friendly care) for this person what should I do? sounds like you are way too interested in school / career to care about her , so just have some fun together while you are young thats what college is about - sex with no emotions or regrets
look forward Posted February 15, 2004 Posted February 15, 2004 After reading your post i would say dont go back to her if you just feel obliged to because of your friendly relationship with her brother and sister, that wouldn't be fair on you or her.. Also it sounds like your studies are a high priority at the moment so maybe just be friends with this girl and see how the land lies when things calm down with your studies a bit.. If your over her already then maybe its best for both of you if you move on...
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