Could be a potential LDR, maybe =/

[Emma_x]

I'm so unbelievably confused, right now.

I met this girl on the internet through a friend, and started talking to her and we got on really, really well and I felt like I started to develop feelings for her. So, I was already feeling confused. But, we decided to meet up, so I flew over to see her, & we really got on amazingly, we had so much fun and I've never laughed so much, never smiled so much and never, felt this way about anyone, ever.

 

However, since I got back (just over a week ago) I can't stop thinking about her and can't stop crying because I miss her like crazy, and I know she misses me, and I know we like each other. When I think about her I picture a whole life together and I see us actually being together, however, she lives an hour & 1/2 flight away & it's really expensive to go and see each other, but I'd love to make it work. I just don't know her thoughts on it and I don't know how we could make it work =/. I'm scared to talk to her about it & scare her off or soemthing =/.

 

I guess I just want advice/peoples opinions, really. (:

 

Thanks if you read this

[Enchanted Girl]

Either you have to be content forever with the ways things are or risk talking to her about it.

 

I mean, does she already know you're attracted to her and is she attracted to you? If so and she's not scared off by that, then bringing up the suggestion shouldn't destroy your relationship with her completely. I would agree that this might hurt things if she didn't know you liked her and didn't know she liked you, but if she's already okay with that, then discussing whether or not you should take the next step shouldn't be a big leap in comparison to that.

[Emma_x]

She knows I like her, but I don't think she realises how much and I know she likes me, yet she hasn't told me how much or in what way, if that makes sense?

 

She's mentioned before, when asking if I like her, to "not worry because it won't change anything..." =/

 

Idk, I feel I should have the conversation with her, just starting it and knowing what to say and how to say it, is the problem, I think.

 

& Idk how we could make it work when we live so far. =/

[Enchanted Girl]

Ask her how she feels about you exactly and tell her you want to talk about the relationship because you don't know what it means or where it might be going.

 

I can't tell you if it will work or not. It all depends on how compatible you two are and if both of you can stand the idea of not being able to touch one another for prolonged periods of time or not. If it's really, really important to one of you to be able to touch on a regular basis, then it won't work out.

[Emma_x]

I know what you mean, and that's another problem, I really like her and if she lived near me there'd be no question about whether I want to be with her or not, but I genuinly don't know if I'm strong enough to deal with not being able to be with her all the time, as already It's hard enough not seeing her and beign with her, but then I feel what we had when I went to see her was so strong and amazing and I definately felt a connection I've never felt with anyone else before.

 

Ahh, I don't know. I know I need to talk to her about it, in great detail, and not rush into anything, I guess I just need to vent about it to myself or anyone that's willing to listen (hence this post) so maybe it makes it easier for me to talk to her because I'll have more of an idea of what I want to say (because there's so many things I want to say to her, but no idea how to do it.)