Dating outside your race

[White Dove]

Please who made you the mouth piece for the many different kind of asians.. from the philipinos to the vietnamese ect...

 

I'm speaking from experience and I'm Asian. Even some Middle Eastern men prefer girls who are down to earth. I know for a fact that most of my male friends prefer girls that focus more on life than superficiality.

[Green]

I'm speaking from experience and I'm Asian. Even some Middle Eastern men prefer girls who are down to earth. I know for a fact that most of my male friends prefer girls that focus more on life than superficiality.

 

Well then wouldn't you agree that she is down to earth. I don't here her talking about partying or doing anything crazy.

 

I think any man would be happy to have her.

[temporaryvisa]

I'm speaking from experience and I'm Asian. Even some Middle Eastern men prefer girls who are down to earth. I know for a fact that most of my male friends prefer girls that focus more on life than superficiality.

 

LOL, but I'm the total opposite of superficiality :S If I pick dates, it would be on the beach or at a cottage, or doing something in nature! I focus on life, and I don't go clubbing or drink or any of that stuff. I spend most of my time with my family, I don't hang out with a bunch of teens at all.

I AM really down to earth, but I just am blessed with tons of energy.

I can't help it.

[temporaryvisa]

Well then wouldn't you agree that she is down to earth. I don't here her talking about partying or doing anything crazy.

 

I think any man would be happy to have her.

AW! Thanks, gosh!

[White Dove]

tv, when you say Asian - which race would you like to date?

[temporaryvisa]

If I were dating a guy, I'd want to do the things he wants to do. I'd accept it if he doesn't like going out much. I'm a really huge people-pleaser! And I'm REALLY flexible. I wish that the fact that I'm bold, outgoing and like to makeout and also, flirt, didn't make me seem like some out-of-control teen. I'm really very responsible and nice, too. I do a lot of things with my family, I barely ever go out with friends, and I rarely drink! I like to have a good time!

 

As an Asian, most Indian women are unattractive to you? Yes or no?

[temporaryvisa]

tv, when you say Asian - which race would you like to date?

 

I'm really broad-minded about that, I WOULD date ANY race... But Japanese would be my fave.

 

Or maybe thai.

 

I find philip/viets attractive, but in a different way.

[Feelin Frisky]

I'm black and I've dated all races except for Asian. I have dated way more white guys than any other race though and my husband is white. It isn't necessarily a preference on my part, it just seems I have way more white guys after me than any other race.

As a white guy I can tell you that a beautiful black woman (or brown) tends to draw the eye in a lineup of whites. If one can't see anything but beauty and mystery first, darker complexions seem more concealing and mysterious and thus at atvantage over all-out-there white bread. Sorry but it has always been so for me.

[White Dove]

I'm really broad-minded about that, I WOULD date ANY race... But Japanese would be my fave.

 

Or maybe thai.

 

I find philip/viets attractive, but in a different way.

 

I haven't seen any Japanese date an Indian before nor have I seen Thai with Indian.

 

However, it's really easy to spot a Chinese with an Indian. That's much more common so perhaps you can try Chinese.

[Green]

If I were dating a guy, I'd want to do the things he wants to do. I'd accept it if he doesn't like going out much. I'm a really huge people-pleaser! And I'm REALLY flexible. I wish that the fact that I'm bold, outgoing and like to makeout and also, flirt, didn't make me seem like some out-of-control teen. I'm really very responsible and nice, too. I do a lot of things with my family, I barely ever go out with friends, and I rarely drink! I like to have a good time!

 

As an Asian, most Indian women are unattractive to you? Yes or no?

 

She's an asian woman is my guess. So really don't worry about her opinion.

 

I'm a man and you are attractive to all races.

 

Also just be yourself and keep all your energy and don't date a man who makes you feel bad for being you. Date a man who makes life fun and gives you good company.

[temporaryvisa]

I think it's kinda mean that you just assumed that because I'm outgoing that I'm not down-to-earth. I like people for who they are, and the only reason I'm good with people is because I'm accepting that everyone's different. I dislike girls who party their lives away, and I'm pretty strict with myself about what I do in my life. The only thing about me that might be kinda crazy is the fact I'm a drama-nut (been the lead of musicals three years in a row), I am extremely open, and I don't feel embarassed easily! Or if I do, I accept and admit it!

[White Dove]

As an Asian, most Indian women are unattractive to you? Yes or no?

 

From what I have seen and also, some of my Indian female friends are attractive especially if they were of mixed race. But none have dated Thai nor Japanese, but they have dated (2 are still dating, 1 is engaged) Chinese and White guys. One of my ex-schoolmate married an Indian man and she's Malay.

 

As a white guy I can tell you that a beautiful black woman (or brown) tends to draw the eye in a lineup of whites. If one can't see anything but beauty and mystery first, darker complexions seem more concealing and mysterious and thus at atvantage over all-out-there white bread. Sorry but it has always been so for me.

 

True, a lot white men seem to like darker skin women.

 

She's an asian woman is my guess. So really don't worry about her opinion.

 

Yeah, I wouldn't worry about your opinions too.

[temporaryvisa]

I haven't seen any Japanese date an Indian before nor have I seen Thai with Indian.

 

However, it's really easy to spot a Chinese with an Indian. That's much more common so perhaps you can try Chinese.

 

YEAH! Chinese guys are REALLY CUTE TOO..I used to be damn obsessed with this one guy, GOD HE WAS SO HOT AND SEXY! Even thinking about him I get happy.

 

But he dated some other boring indian girl, because apparently we were way too different, and I was not normal.

 

LOLOL.

He's right, I'm def not normal!

 

Why dont you think Jap date Indians? I talked to three Japanese guys at work and they barely spoke english but they didnt seem to wanna leave my side! They were effin adorable. GOSH <3 Although I asked them if they like Japanese girls the best, they said yes.

[temporaryvisa]

She's an asian woman is my guess. So really don't worry about her opinion.

 

I'm a man and you are attractive to all races.

 

Also just be yourself and keep all your energy and don't date a man who makes you feel bad for being you. Date a man who makes life fun and gives you good company.

 

SHOW ME YOURSELF!

Your positivity is REFRESHING.

[White Dove]

Why dont you think Jap date Indians? I talked to three Japanese guys at work and they barely spoke english but they didnt seem to wanna leave my side! They were effin adorable. GOSH <3 Although I asked them if they like Japanese girls the best, they said yes.

 

Culture is a huge impact on Asian lifestyle. Most Asian, especially if their family is still back in their home country, will stick to their own race out of respect for their parents/grandparents.

 

Well those Japanese guys answered your question - they still think their girls are the best and they will most likely end up dating/marrying Japanese girls as it is what is expected of them and easier.

[Green]

Culture is a huge impact on Asian lifestyle. Most Asian, especially if their family is still back in their home country, will stick to their own race out of respect for their parents/grandparents.

 

Well those Japanese guys answered your question - they still think their girls are the best and they will most likely end up dating/marrying Japanese girls as it is what is expected of them and easier.

 

Please as a man I really think middle easter women are the only ones who are some times off limits... and even they can be dated if thats your thing.

 

You live in the past

[White Dove]

Please as a man I really think middle easter women are the only ones who are some times off limits... and even they can be dated if thats your thing.

 

You live in the past

 

You are entitled to your own opinion. I'm stating mine from what I know of and what my friends said, after I asked them why they think most Asian stick to their own people.

 

Like me, I'm fine with dating Asian and non-Asian people. I'm different than most Asian because I was brought up differently. There are people like me out there but some, although they would date other Asians, they would still prefer to marry their own people.

 

If OP is looking for someone to hang out with then by all means, she's welcomed to try every single Asian guy around but if she wants something serious in the future then she should really think about it cause I wouldn't want her to go through what I went through.

 

If you have nothing good to say or you can't seem to agree with what I have to say, I'd appreciate if you just ignore my posts, Green. You're just plain rude to me cause my opinion differs from yours and most of them on here.

[Green]

You are entitled to your own opinion. I'm stating mine from what I know of and what my friends said, after I asked them why they think most Asian stick to their own people.

 

Like me, I'm fine with dating Asian and non-Asian people. I'm different than most Asian because I was brought up differently. There are people like me out there but some, although they would date other Asians, they would still prefer to marry their own people.

 

If OP is looking for someone to hang out with then by all means, she's welcomed to try every single Asian guy around but if she wants something serious in the future then she should really think about it cause I wouldn't want her to go through what I went through.

 

If you have nothing good to say or you can't seem to agree with what I have to say, I'd appreciate if you just ignore my posts, Green. You're just plain rude to me cause my opinion differs from yours and most of them on here.

 

I think its rude that you post in a forum and then tell another poster not to post his opinion in the same sentence as telling them they are entitled to them. I also see you were hurt in your past and you are projecting it onto others in the misguided view it is helping.

 

I'm sorry if you think it is rude to encourage peoplt to be the best they can be and never give up on their dreams.

 

But you are the one who is brash and insulting in your assumptions about this girl and I will post and say what ever I want. I suggest if you can't handle that you go start your own private forum.

[White Dove]

I think its rude that you post in a forum and then tell another poster not to post his opinion in the same sentence as telling them they are entitled to them. I also see you were hurt in your past and you are projecting it onto others in the misguided view it is helping.

 

I'm sorry if you think it is rude to encourage peoplt to be the best they can be and never give up on their dreams.

 

But you are the one who is brash and insulting in your assumptions about this girl and I will post and say what ever I want. I suggest if you can't handle that you go start your own private forum.

 

Thank you for this and have a nice day/evening

[temporaryvisa]

Thank you for this and have a nice day/evening

lol... DO I HAVE TO USE SKIN WHITENING?

[Feelin Frisky]

lol... DO I HAVE TO USE SKIN WHITENING?

 

 

Don't touch a thing.

[White Dove]

lol... DO I HAVE TO USE SKIN WHITENING?

 

Don't touch a thing.

 

What FF said. That stuff is nasty. I don't know why they are produced. Like I said before, white men and even Chinese like Indian women so nothing to worry about. Also, Mad Max said something about you being 18 - you still have a long way to go when it comes to dating! Take it easy.

[ViciousViolet]

I'm black and I've dated black, white, Latino, Indian and a guy of Middle-Eastern descent. I've never dated an Asian guy but would like to. There are not a lot of Asian guys here and the ones that are here keep to themselves. I like all types of men, variety makes life so much more interesting. If you're feeling the Asian guys, go for it.

[stillafool]

I want to put my pics up here man! I want people to know how I look I have to wait a MONTH to do so?

 

i like to show myself to people, idk why.

 

Sorry man, didnt see that!

 

 

But if I do that, people will base my looks through my pictures, and I am not photogenic. Also a lot of asians that I like aren't on these sites! I don't know why.

 

Doesn't it kind of seem desperate that at 18 I'm already on a dating site? Although I've tried it, and the first time it ended fantastic, second time? I got dumped by the asian for "pushing him out of his comfort zone" and "being consistently energetic and enthusiastic" and "way too outgoing" and "Are you ever tired? blah blah"

 

So bad.

 

Anyone have tips on how to approach perfect strangers without seeming like a creepy ho!

 

I only suggested MySpace, Facebook and a dating sites because of the things you said above. I would imagine the Asian guy you might meet on a dating site might think that you would think he is desperate also; but I doubt anyone would think that of you. I would explain that this is your only way to meet Asian men. As far as meeting perfect strangers, you don't seem shy, just be yourself and say hello.

Edited August 18, 2010 by stillafool

[wrencn]

As a white guy I can tell you that a beautiful black woman (or brown) tends to draw the eye in a lineup of whites. If one can't see anything but beauty and mystery first, darker complexions seem more concealing and mysterious and thus at atvantage over all-out-there white bread. Sorry but it has always been so for me.

 

I have heard this quite a few times. They also say the contrast is a big turn on.