Green Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 I have. I've been turned down once, been on a date with few, but mostly it was flat. Of course, I am not attracted to ALL asians..But give me a hot asian vs a hot indian, I'd pick the asian! (this is just looks wise, i mean) i don't know why it is. and yes, it should be very easy for me to find someone during university who is willing to give me a try BUT I'M SO IMPATIENT! Oh so you start university soon. Yeah you're going to be chased around by all the japanese boys once that starts. You guys can feed eachother sushi while watching movies like "spirited away" and "ringu"
Author temporaryvisa Posted August 16, 2010 Author Posted August 16, 2010 Oh so you start university soon. Yeah you're going to be chased around by all the japanese boys once that starts. You guys can feed eachother sushi while watching movies like "spirited away" and "ringu" Please, don't give me too much hope! If I'm chased by even one Japanese guy I'd be the happiest chick on the block.
Green Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Please, don't give me too much hope! If I'm chased by even one Japanese guy I'd be the happiest chick on the block. I'm sure you will be. He'll write your name in Japanese writing and you'll like it.
aerogurl87 Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 I am an eighteen year old woman (girl, i guess <_<) who is very attracted to Asian men. Asian guys my age seem to be very into their image, and don't want to date outside their race.. I wish I knew why I'm so attracted to them! Maybe it's because I haven't had much luck with them, or I think it'd be a prize to have one on my arm. Anyway, I'm not having any luck with it. Anyone here have a big thing for women/men of a particular race? I think Asian guys not dating outside their race usually has to do more with tradition and family expectations more than attraction. I say this because I have an Asian friend who only dates asian girls, not because he's not attracted to other races, but because that's what's expected of him by his parents (date an asian girl, marry her, and start a family). But to answer your question I'm black but I find myself usually attracted to white guys. In fact my boyfriend is white.
Author temporaryvisa Posted August 16, 2010 Author Posted August 16, 2010 Not to sound insanely conceited, but for some reason even when I feel fat and ugly and have no makeup on, white guys check me out. Theyre so sweet and cute. I do adore them as well.
Green Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Not to sound insanely conceited, but for some reason even when I feel fat and ugly and have no makeup on, white guys check me out. Theyre so sweet and cute. I do adore them as well. Oh really so now you like the cock asians (I know its spelled caucasian or something like that I was just being gross/funny) You should do a semester abroad in Japan... Some asian guy would make you his gf and take you to Tokyo Disney
Author temporaryvisa Posted August 16, 2010 Author Posted August 16, 2010 OH, THAT WOULD BE FREAKIN AMAZING! Oh my God, stop filling my head with these amazing fantasies.
Green Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 OH, THAT WOULD BE FREAKIN AMAZING! Oh my God, stop filling my head with these amazing fantasies. hows it a fantasy... lots of people do study abroad for a semest. Japan has programs. Maybe a japanese artist would fall in love with you. He would buy you a comono outfit and paint you japanese style on a scroll and then give it to you.
BlackLovely Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 I think Asian guys not dating outside their race usually has to do more with tradition and family expectations more than attraction. I say this because I have an Asian friend who only dates asian girls, not because he's not attracted to other races, but because that's what's expected of him by his parents (date an asian girl, marry her, and start a family). But to answer your question I'm black but I find myself usually attracted to white guys. In fact my boyfriend is white. My fiance is white too. While I am physically attracted to men of many races, I have been treated the nicest by white guys. Of course, this is not to say that all black men are cruel or all white men are classy. I'm only speaking of my experiences.
tigressA Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 I'm mixed (black/white) and most guys I've dated are white. I do have a serious thing for Indian/Middle Eastern guys who are foreign-born (love the accents ) and dated a string of gorgeous ones over the last 6 months or so, but I've found that for the most part, we don't share the same values--they're all super-ambitious and extremely family-oriented, while I'm really neither of those things. So far all they've been good for is a very passionate, brief fling. I have some great memories for lonely nights.
Myst Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Quick poll. How often do you see Asian guys with Indian girls?
tigressA Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Quick poll. How often do you see Asian guys with Indian girls? Personally I've never seen it, but it's due to the areas I've lived in--small towns with not much of a minority population in general, and a basically nonexistent Asian/Indian presence. I'm sure those couplings do happen, though.
Green Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Personally I've never seen it, but it's due to the areas I've lived in--small towns with not much of a minority population in general, and a basically nonexistent Asian/Indian presence. I'm sure those couplings do happen, though. how often do you see indians dating blacks... really the answer doesn't matter its a silly question that shouldn't effect what a person does.
tigressA Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 (edited) how often do you see indians dating blacks... really the answer doesn't matter its a silly question that shouldn't effect what a person does. Obviously the answer matters to the poster since that's why they asked the question. I know the answers to that question shouldn't affect what a person does. Doesn't mean there's any harm in answering it. I'll also say that I'm sure people get tired of seeing these race-based dating threads on LS--all the "We're all human" comments and such. But the fact that these threads obviously still get a lot of attention means, to me at least, that race/ethnicity is still very relevant in the dating world. The day when people stop paying attention to it will be when we're truly living the "We're all of the human race" adage. Edited August 16, 2010 by tigressA
Green Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Obviously the answer matters to the poster since that's why they asked the question. I know the answers to that question shouldn't affect what a person does. Doesn't mean there's any harm in answering it. I'll also say that I'm sure people get tired of seeing these race-based dating threads on LS--all the "We're all human" comments and such. But the fact that these threads obviously still get a lot of attention means, to me at least, that race/ethnicity is still very relevant in the dating world. The day when people stop paying attention to it will be when we're truly living the "We're all of the human race" adage. I think race/gender and lots of things are important... It's just I want the OP to go for what she wants.
Author temporaryvisa Posted August 16, 2010 Author Posted August 16, 2010 Quick poll. How often do you see Asian guys with Indian girls? Only three or four times have I seen unknown couples like that(i know personally of two couples though) and this is in the heart of TORONTO... But anyway, I'm special and I think I'm cute in the way that they like! (Big eyes and expressive features, asian nose) Today at work Im going to flirt hardcore. I'm sick of the guy I'm 'dating', if you can even call it that.
USMCHokie Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Your a cool chick. If you live in the DC area there is an asian guy who posts on this site a lot that I could put a good word in with. If you don't live in the DC area maybe he'd fly you out lol haha or vice versa I'm still working on saving up for that other plane ticket...
Green Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 I'm still working on saving up for that other plane ticket... she should fly herself out you take care of room and board for the vacation.
stillafool Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 I want to put my pics up here man! I want people to know how I look I have to wait a MONTH to do so? Have you tried putting your pics on MySpace or a dating site and expressing your desire for asian men?
stillafool Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Have you tried putting your pics on MySpace or a dating site and expressing your desire for asian men? I swear, do people really want help on these boards or do they just want to vent.
wrencn Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 I'm black and I've dated all races except for Asian. I have dated way more white guys than any other race though and my husband is white. It isn't necessarily a preference on my part, it just seems I have way more white guys after me than any other race.
Author temporaryvisa Posted August 17, 2010 Author Posted August 17, 2010 I swear, do people really want help on these boards or do they just want to vent. Sorry man, didnt see that! But if I do that, people will base my looks through my pictures, and I am not photogenic. Also a lot of asians that I like aren't on these sites! I don't know why. Doesn't it kind of seem desperate that at 18 I'm already on a dating site? Although I've tried it, and the first time it ended fantastic, second time? I got dumped by the asian for "pushing him out of his comfort zone" and "being consistently energetic and enthusiastic" and "way too outgoing" and "Are you ever tired? blah blah" So bad. Anyone have tips on how to approach perfect strangers without seeming like a creepy ho!
Green Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Sorry man, didnt see that! But if I do that, people will base my looks through my pictures, and I am not photogenic. Also a lot of asians that I like aren't on these sites! I don't know why. Doesn't it kind of seem desperate that at 18 I'm already on a dating site? Although I've tried it, and the first time it ended fantastic, second time? I got dumped by the asian for "pushing him out of his comfort zone" and "being consistently energetic and enthusiastic" and "way too outgoing" and "Are you ever tired? blah blah" So bad. Anyone have tips on how to approach perfect strangers without seeming like a creepy ho! Back when I was 18 going on a dating site was something I would have never done. Now that I'm in my 20's I would never rely on dating sites. Real world is always the best way to go. Dating sites take a lot of luck... probably have more chance of getting hit by lightniing
White Dove Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Asian guys don't like girls that are attention-seekers. They like down to earth girls.
Green Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Asian guys don't like girls that are attention-seekers. They like down to earth girls. Please who made you the mouth piece for the many different kind of asians.. from the philipinos to the vietnamese ect...
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