kickingmyself Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 I'm 22, and have been with my partner for almost 2.5 years now. He wasn't my first, and I knew straight away that it was love. I still love him more than anything. From the very first day, I knew he was "the one". I knew I wanted to grow old with him, have a family and so on.However, lately I have been doubting it. I can't stop thinking that i'm not in love with him anymore. It's killing me. I want everything with him, and we have more or less no problems within the relationship. When we're together, I feel completely fine and stop doubting. But when he's not here, I start doubting. What the hell is wrong with me? I feel like i'm a nut case right now. Is this normal?
twinsmom Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 Don't do it! I married at 19, and regret it to this day. At first I thought he was "the one", but realized that he wasn't, even before the wedding day. But I went through with it anyway, so as not to disappoint his or my parents who had put so much into the wedding preparations. I remember grasping onto my dad after the ceremony, and it was not just because I loved my dad so much, it was because I thought even on that day that I had made a terrible mistake. The marriage lasted only about 1 1/2 years, because we were totally mismatched from the beginning. I went through with the marriage because I didn't want to disappoint anyone, and it turned out to be a huge mistake. You're too young to marry someone for whom you have misgivings. I had misgivings beforehand, and I ended up getting divorced. You don't want that.
Author kickingmyself Posted August 13, 2010 Author Posted August 13, 2010 He treats me so well, he adores and loves me. And I adore and love him too. I couldn't live with myself if I hurt him. I don't know why my head keeps doubting it tho... It's killing me
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