smk Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 I mean seriously do i really have to spell it out for her??? God****ingdamn it - seriously - i dont take your calls - i dont reply to your text msgs yet you insist on making contact with me every few days... you text me for most stupid reasons - i dont care if you saw my family at the cinema yesterday - if they didnt feel the need to tell me then why do you feel the need? you have all the info needed for work on the files and if its not their ask my partner to phone me and get it - i have already explained this to them that if they need anything business related she should call me and not you... when YOU broke up with me YOU said NO CONTACT - not me but YOU - yet you cant stop texting me to rub my face in how you are getting on with your ****ing life - i really do not give a GD ****.... so please just leave me the **** alone - and go away - you made your choice - you ****ing left so you know what keep it that way... sorry everyone just had to rant there....
bonpaw2008 Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 I mean seriously do i really have to spell it out for her??? God****ingdamn it - seriously - i dont take your calls - i dont reply to your text msgs yet you insist on making contact with me every few days... you text me for most stupid reasons - i dont care if you saw my family at the cinema yesterday - if they didnt feel the need to tell me then why do you feel the need? you have all the info needed for work on the files and if its not their ask my partner to phone me and get it - i have already explained this to them that if they need anything business related she should call me and not you... when YOU broke up with me YOU said NO CONTACT - not me but YOU - yet you cant stop texting me to rub my face in how you are getting on with your ****ing life - i really do not give a GD ****.... so please just leave me the **** alone - and go away - you made your choice - you ****ing left so you know what keep it that way... sorry everyone just had to rant there.... I know baby, I know....she can't stand that she doesn't still have her hooks in you, she can feel you slipping away and she is grasping....let it out, scream at us!!! They are selfish and mean.....and you rock!!!
Author smk Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 Hey BP - she is really starting to piss me off with her crap... So far I have been polite and ignored it - but I am not getting to the point where I am going to tell her what I feel and ask her to literally **** off from my life...
Username37 Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 I would love my ex to text me everyday and me ignoring her ass haha
Nikki Sahagin Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Ignore her, change your number or block her number. My ex stopped contacting me as soon as he got a new girl so its best to just let them go before they do.
Author smk Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 @ User - trust me it just ****s with your head... the amount of time it bothers me now is considerably less though... @ Nikki - the thing with her that i am now realising is that she has some serious commitment and abandonment issues that she needs to deal with... I cant change my number because its too much of a headache - i have had this number for so many years....
Nikki Sahagin Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 @ User - trust me it just ****s with your head... the amount of time it bothers me now is considerably less though... @ Nikki - the thing with her that i am now realising is that she has some serious commitment and abandonment issues that she needs to deal with... I cant change my number because its too much of a headache - i have had this number for so many years.... She does need to deal with them, don't let her drag you into it! You are doing really well to avoid her. Try blocking her number? But I changed my number after having it for so long. I mean think about it, you've already lost 1 thing you had for ages, (your ex), whats a number?
Gettingtired Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Samsung mobile phones are good for blocking numbers.
bonpaw2008 Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 @ User - trust me it just ****s with your head... the amount of time it bothers me now is considerably less though... @ Nikki - the thing with her that i am now realising is that she has some serious commitment and abandonment issues that she needs to deal with... I cant change my number because its too much of a headache - i have had this number for so many years.... You saw my rant yesterday about his stupid contact, but that is all it is, stupid, useless, meaningless contact. They are needy people and need to know they still have us on a string.... You are either going to have to ignore or get mean with her, she doesn't deserve you....
Author smk Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 Wow the rant really helped - lol... I have decided if she doesn't stop I am going to tell her to stop contacting me... And if she feels offended well then that's too bad...
Username37 Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 @ User - trust me it just ****s with your head... the amount of time it bothers me now is considerably less though... Yeah, I know, remember how I acted when my ex sent me that "friend" text? I was happy at first and was all giddy because the ball was in my court. Then I was flipping out, asking what it meant and I realized that it meant NOTHING. I guess I miss the contact and me ignoring it (if that's not weird and ****ed up) That text doesn't bug me anymore though. That passes. I laugh looking back at it. It's funny she put the little " " at the end HAHAHA Exes are crazy. Acting like everything is normal and nothing happened REALLY helps us dumpees.
cookie2 Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 I have decided if she doesn't stop I am going to tell her to stop contacting me... And if she feels offended well then that's too bad... Yep if that's what's necessary, do it! But don't get drawn into a discussion... just tell her, and don't reply to whatever bitchy or begging thing she says in response!! Exes are crazy. I don't think many here would disagree with that one
BeagleGal Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Yeah, I know, remember how I acted when my ex sent me that "friend" text? I was happy at first and was all giddy because the ball was in my court. Then I was flipping out, asking what it meant and I realized that it meant NOTHING. I guess I miss the contact and me ignoring it (if that's not weird and ****ed up) I felt the same way anytime my ex contacted me. B/c it was him that initiated contact 99% of the time, I felt "powerful" and thought he was totally regretting dumping me the way he did. That text doesn't bug me anymore though. That passes. I laugh looking back at it. It's funny she put the little " " at the end HAHAHA Exes are crazy. Acting like everything is normal and nothing happened REALLY helps us dumpees. To some degree. When I found out my ex cheated on me/got the girl pregnant/gotten engaged (they just got married last Sat) last few months of our relationship, I confronted him as never was honest with me as to why we had to breakup and "live apart". It was thru a coworker (we work for same company) that I found out all he did. When I confronted him, he kept telling me it was "bull****", "nothing happened while with me", basically tried to deny or lie about what was going on with him and how he didn't want me to find out. And kept texting me as if it was alright to keep in touch, to wish me Happy Birthday, to ask about my dog (who he resented for the beagle shedding and peeing when my ex was around), and to ask me out for drinks. He's an idiot.
Author smk Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 Wow it must be my lucky day - a text and then a call that I didn't answer cos I was out running... Maybe I may just win the euromilllions tomorrow at this rate... Lol...
bonpaw2008 Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Wow it must be my lucky day - a text and then a call that I didn't answer cos I was out running... Maybe I may just win the euromilllions tomorrow at this rate... Lol... What did the text say? She obviously wants something from you, ask her flat out what it is.... Are you trying to get back with me? Are you trying to be friends? This is how I feel about both....now feck off (that was my best english accent, did you like it??)
Author smk Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 What did the text say? She obviously wants something from you, ask her flat out what it is.... Are you trying to get back with me? Are you trying to be friends? This is how I feel about both....now feck off (that was my best english accent, did you like it??) Text was saying that she met my sister last night and asking me for some info that the office needed - I replied 5 hrs later with nothing but the info - got another text saying thank you... Then a few hrs later I get a call which I didn't answer... If she has something that important to tell me she can leave a voicemail or text or keep trying until I pick up or show up at my house like I once did halfway through our relationship... It obviously wasn't since I haven't heard back.... Ah well - I am too busy downloading swingers - I have some great stuff about that movie...
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