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Ex intiates no contact rule and sends Valentine, smart?


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Its been about 2 months now and I guess it didn't bother me really. Yes my feelings for her are very strong and I think about her everyday, but I know in my heart nothing will ever happen. For some reason I really saw it coming though.

 

If your ex intiated no contact rule and knew you still loved them, do you think its a wise idea to send a V-day greeting? In my opinion, if the no contact rule was set up so the person being dumped can move on, its a horrible idea. So far there has been 2 instances of contact that she has done since. I ignored the 1st one and replied to this one.

Whats your opinion?

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Hi Theedge,

 

If your ex made up the no contact rule so that you could get over her, I wouldn't send her a Valentine's Day card. But if she didn't, seeing that she has made two attempts to contact you, I'd say go ahead.

 

But, I wouldn't neccasarily send anything too sappy. Maybe just something simple. Good luck! :)

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She intiated it, not me......I did reply but it was none of that "I miss you crap" Hell hers wasn't either just a simple "I hope all is well and I am still thinking of you" But I sent the reply regardless and almost positive it will be done with.

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