bluz73 Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 I know its over has been for 10 months..He isnt coming back and quite frankly what I have learned from all this is I deserved better all along and want more from my life then he ever offerd me, but granted it still hurts to hear things about him. He has definately moved on..within a month after the break up he was living with her and now they are having a baby all in 10 months! i am shocked that he rushed the whole relatonship, but def not suprised that she trapped him as a teenager would a 31 yr old man. i never would have guessed a REBOUND would be his future wife or mother of his child! My question is for my future healing..Has anyone on here ever had an ex move on so quickly to either marriage or a baby in a short amount of time and How did it intwine with your healing?
Nikki Sahagin Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 I haven't personally, but I know a friend of mine whos ex cheated on her, and then ended up with the girl and now they are married with a baby. I think it adds a lot of extra pain, because they seem to have replaced you and re-written their future.
Els Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 ...Wait, he has a baby 10 MONTHS after you broke up??? I doubt anyone rushes a relationship to the point of conception 1 mth after the R begins. I think you were cheated on.
Author bluz73 Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 ...Wait, he has a baby 10 MONTHS after you broke up??? I doubt anyone rushes a relationship to the point of conception 1 mth after the R begins. I think you were cheated on. Yes seriously her anniversary date on her Facebook is August 2009..and I didnt know nothing until Sept 2009..he did cheat for a month..but then broke it off with her for a month cause he was confused and I found out the true so it was over for good between us in Oct..so yeah they rushed it and now are 1 month pregnant!!!!!! Yeah pain on pain is what I get in the end! I am just as shocked as anyone to know a year ago he wanted to spend his life with me and now he has a whole new life so quick! thats why i am so messed up right now dealing with this.
twisted&alone Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 and now he has a whole new life so quick! I think that is the hardest to deal with for females; it takes us longer to make the break in most cases and we can't understand how they can end it and seem to have started over so quickly. It makes it difficult for us to let go I believe; because even if we don't want the relationship we still want to know they love us...or is that just me messed up too? bluz, I know you are hurting and you are in my thoughts!
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