shiftedblue Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Kind of a rant... So I haven't called my ex since he dumped me 11 days ago, and in fact I changed my phone number so that he can't unless he calls my house (and braves having to possibly speak to a family member). He hasn't, he won't I'm sure. My family and friends have been super supportive and are happy we are no longer together after 3.5 years because he wasn't very good to me, etc. But I find myself constantly hoping that he will email me or somehow call me. I don't want the relationship but I do... I just miss the comfort of his voice and knowing he loves me. I feel so alone without him.. ughdfhggnhxgh!!!!
exclusive. Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 no... you feel alone because your single. You dont miss him, you miss someone. Become acceptant your single and can get out there in life and do more things for yourself. Become busy, and you'll soon forget your lonely.
Beeotch Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Kind of a rant... So I haven't called my ex since he dumped me 11 days ago, and in fact I changed my phone number so that he can't unless he calls my house (and braves having to possibly speak to a family member). He hasn't, he won't I'm sure. My family and friends have been super supportive and are happy we are no longer together after 3.5 years because he wasn't very good to me, etc. But I find myself constantly hoping that he will email me or somehow call me. I don't want the relationship but I do... I just miss the comfort of his voice and knowing he loves me. I feel so alone without him.. ughdfhggnhxgh!!!! It's normal to miss the feeling a relationship brought and that comfort even though you know that that particular one is not right. Which is why some people have on and off relationships for years/months until SOMEONE is stronger and cuts it off for good. They both know it cannot work or work needs to be done ALONE before it can work, but they miss the comfort and keep going back for a fix then realizing the truth that was always there.... You don't have to feel bad for missing him. It is normal. You spent almost 4 years with him. Missing him doesn't mean you have to get back together though or act on it. Overtime you will become more and more confident in your decision and will miss him less and less...it is like withdrawal, it is for your own good but HURTSSS, but after a while you start feeling better and better and see that what you're doing is right.
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