Would really appericiate some tips.. I wanna get over this one

[fearthepinkmist]

Hey well my whatever the **** he was broke up with me (I really don't know what else to call it) recently and usually I get all lame and don't get over these guys and keep trying well after I should and I don't wanna do that with this one so if yall could give me some tips on how to forget him that would be great.

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You will see it all over this forum:

 

Cut all contact, unless you receive any sort of contact that says no more no less than... im an idiot, ive made a huge mistake, I need you back!! but even then... you need to take a double think.

 

I read something once that put it into such realistic context.

 

Ever chased a naughty dog? the more you run after him, the more he runs away but the moment you give up and take a perch by a tree in the park and chill out... he soon comes back.

 

Think about it.

[fearthepinkmist]

You will see it all over this forum:

 

Cut all contact, unless you receive any sort of contact that says no more no less than... im an idiot, ive made a huge mistake, I need you back!! but even then... you need to take a double think.

 

I read something once that put it into such realistic context.

 

Ever chased a naughty dog? the more you run after him, the more he runs away but the moment you give up and take a perch by a tree in the park and chill out... he soon comes back.

 

Think about it.

 

Haha thanks. I really doubt that he will come back I just don't wanna be that girl that I have been in the past you know? The girl that doesn't get it. I get it this time he doesn't want me and won't but I do love him and I watch those horrible stupid love movies that say try for the person you love... it pisses me off... I dunno I just want to be able to stop wanting him.. I guess that is what I am asking for tips on.. how to stop THINKING about the stupid guy.

[Jamie_w]

Feel that pain in your stomach right? The one that wont go away?

That is all it is. It's actually all in your head.

You were happy without him before but your head has convinced you that the only way to end your sad feeling is to get him back, when in fact i bet it was far from perfect.

So take that pain and get used to it. You CAN live with it, and the sooner you do that, the sooner it goes.

 

Just think, do you want this guy to think you are the kind of girl who falls to pieces, or do you want him to regret what hes done in 3/6 months time.

 

Be the best person u can be, stop watching those **** movies and go out and meet people, friends, guys whatever. The pain will go, embrace it and conquer it

[fearthepinkmist]

Feel that pain in your stomach right? The one that wont go away?

That is all it is. It's actually all in your head.

You were happy without him before but your head has convinced you that the only way to end your sad feeling is to get him back, when in fact i bet it was far from perfect.

So take that pain and get used to it. You CAN live with it, and the sooner you do that, the sooner it goes.

 

Just think, do you want this guy to think you are the kind of girl who falls to pieces, or do you want him to regret what hes done in 3/6 months time.

 

Be the best person u can be, stop watching those **** movies and go out and meet people, friends, guys whatever. The pain will go, embrace it and conquer it

 

It's not really a pain in my stomach... I know I can live without him obviously. It's more like I see something really small that will remind me of him in some way and it pisses me off. I don't wanna think about him. I really do love him and if he wanted a relationship with me I would take him back but I know that isn't what he wants or will want.. so really don't have a choice.. kinda if you love em let em go thing. I know I can live with out him and I will meet another guy that will make me happy but it won't be him. It won't be the same. I dunno.. I just wanna stop thinking about him all together.. good bad or anything. I would go out and meet people and all that good junk but I am kinda going through some other personal issues and going out it probably a bad idea cause most likely I will solve the problem by getting rather wasted and I don't really wanna do that anymore cause that never works..

[Sambo]

Haha thanks. I really doubt that he will come back I just don't wanna be that girl that I have been in the past you know? The girl that doesn't get it. I get it this time he doesn't want me and won't but I do love him and I watch those horrible stupid love movies that say try for the person you love... it pisses me off... I dunno I just want to be able to stop wanting him.. I guess that is what I am asking for tips on.. how to stop THINKING about the stupid guy.

 

 

Picture the guy begging for you to comeback.

 

Picture yourself telling him everything you feel and get it all off your chest.

 

Then picture yourself walking away from him.

 

Do this over and over until you feel better.

 

Then picture the man of your dreams and feel just how good that feels.

 

Do this over and over till you know what you want and don't settle for less.

 

We ALL deserve to be loved .... ALL of us. Including our ex's and if they love someone else then you can too.

[fearthepinkmist]

Picture the guy begging for you to comeback.

 

Picture yourself telling him everything you feel and get it all off your chest.

 

Then picture yourself walking away from him.

 

Do this over and over until you feel better.

 

Then picture the man of your dreams and feel just how good that feels.

 

Do this over and over till you know what you want and don't settle for less.

 

We ALL deserve to be loved .... ALL of us. Including our ex's and if they love someone else then you can too.

 

Thanks. I will do that.. I will just skip the guy of the dreams part cause he always seemed that way.. it used to freak me out.. so if I think about that it will make me think more about him but all the the other stuff might actually help thanks