antistar Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Hi all, Hope everyone is doing well! I posted here a few weeks ago asking if I should submit a letter to my ex - to explain where things went wrong on my end, etc. I decided NOT to send it because it would re-open a huge load of emotions, which is not fair to either side. Anyway, we have mutual friends and we bump into each other from time to time. Last weekend, I bumped into him and he offered me a ride home - I was meeting a friend, so I politely declined the offer. But I also asked if he wanted to do coffee or dinner some time that week and he said that his schedule was pretty flexible. I didn't hear back from him at all. Maybe he was waiting for me to set up the date/time, etc. So...last night, our mutual friends came over for dinner and I started feeling bad for not having invited the ex over as well. I mentioned to him several weeks ago that I was thinking of having dinner at my place - but it totally slipped my mind to invite him. I know that I don't have any obligation to him and that my relationship with him is completely different now...but for some reason, I feel really bad for not extending the invitation. My question is: should I set up a date/time with him to go for dinner or coffee? Or should I just let it be? I really do want to remain friends with him and we have been nothing but cordial with each other since the break-up. What are your thoughts? Thanks!
DenverBachelor Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 I would let it be. It's not a big deal. Ps: I never thought I'd see cordial and break-up in the same sentence.
MutteringUrchin Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 A similar circumstance torments. And typically, I am more able to give advice to anyone, but myself. The very best thing you could do is let it go. It's only dinner. I doubt crying will occur.
myloveis4ever Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 show him - that u still care - but just friends... and see what happens just do it..
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