guarded Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 we hooked up. he went down on me and i tried to return the favor but he stopped me mid way and said he didnt wanna come too fast. so he went down on me again and then tried to enter me (he did) but as soon as he thrusted he pulled out rushed to the toilet...came back and wanted to keep going down on me but we didnt try again. when i attempted to try again he said that he wanted to get me there orally but couldnt go all they way..... when we talked he confessed he came too quick... did he not wanna try again because he came so fast or was he just not into me?
jamesum Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Yes, he is not into you!!! Happy now? Why do women enjoy being dramatic so much? The guy said he had premature ejaculation problem. Why the **** you still wonder if you are the problem?
Author guarded Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 that made me laugh i dont know why...maybe because when we talked about it all he sounded so crazy about wanting to do it with me but when it came to the act he couldnt try again because he was felt like he was cheating-he was apparently on a break with his ex but she wanted to work things out and he had no idea what was happening there- having said that he asked me over anyway to hang out before he leaves. he jumped me as soon as i got there and it was obvious he wanted to but when it didnt happen as i pictured it it kinda threw and made me question if it was me (i wasnt exactly all made up- i had no makeup on cos the visit was so unplanned!) forgive me if that made me a little insecure or question what happened....
Engadget Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 There is a sexual section of the forum, but these things happen after a long time of no sex.
LSNoob Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 (edited) Oh boy!! Women and drama. Its like men and sports. He prob was just embarrassed for premature ejaculating. Poor b*****d , prob came too quick because he was so turned on and was into you and you are here thinking and worrying that he wasn't into you. Just be supportive and nice to him, next time encourage him to go for a second round. Oh and if you get closer to him and he will be more open with you. Tell him to google "kegel exercises", tell him to check out the exercises for men. They cure premature ejaculation and other benefits comes with it as well. Edited August 11, 2010 by LSNoob
xpaperxcutx Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Isn't he the same guy who sent you text afterwards saying he's sorry and he regrets having sex with you because he's still not over his ex? I thought you didn't want to be a FWB, hence I don't understand why you need to analyze the situation so much. This isn't a biological/ anatomy question. He just isn't that into you to want to date you.
GorillaTheater Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 This sort of thing is exactly why I advise younger guys to rub one out right before the date.
LSNoob Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 This sort of thing is exactly why I advise younger guys to rub one out right before the date. :lmao:
jamesum Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 that made me laugh i dont know why...maybe because when we talked about it all he sounded so crazy about wanting to do it with me but when it came to the act he couldnt try again because he was felt like he was cheating-he was apparently on a break with his ex but she wanted to work things out and he had no idea what was happening there- having said that he asked me over anyway to hang out before he leaves. he jumped me as soon as i got there and it was obvious he wanted to but when it didnt happen as i pictured it it kinda threw and made me question if it was me (i wasnt exactly all made up- i had no makeup on cos the visit was so unplanned!) forgive me if that made me a little insecure or question what happened.... Premature ejaculation is VERY embarrassing for men. Can you imagine that you want something so bad then you are done after a few seconds while your partner still wants more?
sultry33 Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Premature ejaculation is VERY embarrassing for men. Can you imagine that you want something so bad then you are done after a few seconds while your partner still wants more? yes but most guys would spend a bit longer than the op hour .. set himself up for rush job imo.. I have had this but just a bit of time and reasurance and hoo har back on:laugh: got to keep it fun
gopher Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 This sort of thing is exactly why I advise younger guys to rub one out right before the date. Or do kegels....
Feelin Frisky Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 that made me laugh.... Me three. Ever think that it might be that he was so into you, he just got too excited?
Author guarded Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 Isn't he the same guy who sent you text afterwards saying he's sorry and he regrets having sex with you because he's still not over his ex? I thought you didn't want to be a FWB, hence I don't understand why you need to analyze the situation so much. This isn't a biological/ anatomy question. He just isn't that into you to want to date you. OUCHHHH! that made me feel like total crap! he never said he regretted having sex with me.... he sent a msg a few mins after i left saying: im so sorry, im ****ed up. we are still friends yeah?.... and when i didnt reply he sent me another saying: Are we ok? he was always the one who initiated the sex talk, and when i eventually realised i didnt need the drama in my life i distanced myself and about a 2 months later he came back saying how sorry he was and if i could forgive him. stupid me pretended it was all ok. and so we came to this.... he seems so unsure about his ex, i dont know the full story...he lied to me about her, not only did he fail to tell me that they've been together on and off for 2 years he said he was single! so i know i sound really stupid to even ask..but he wouldn't of just said he actually came too quick just because right? we have a long history. after he found out from my bro i moved out of home and got engaged he sent me a long bitter email saying how i shouldnt disrespect myself etc.. after this whole event he actually became somewhat 'close' to my family. he maintained a friendship with my bro and tried to hand out with my dad. my parents adore him and my mom knows that we've been in touch and knows almost everything except the fact that we 'did it' if you can even call it that. my mom has never been the type to just tell me things i wanna hear, in fact she's way to blunt! she thinks he has feelings for me and all my friends say the same. what do you guys think? is it just physical or is there something more? i really feel like there's something there..i know we cant be right now cos we're both in a complicated situation. its almost impossible to disclose everything here so i probably havnt been able to paint a proper picture.... after what happened do you guys think he'll be in touch? or have we just blown it?
Author guarded Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 and why was he even convincing himself that he could do it with me and its ok to go there? i mean if he just wanted sex he could've just called his ex right? i really dont get it???
TaraMaiden Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Hyper-analysis causes paralysis. In the big scheme of things what does it really matter? Drop it, move on, see what happens next time. if it's lather, rinse repeat, he has a problem. Now........... tea and crumpets, or would you prefer a tequila sunrise and a bowl of chips?
djhall Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 It seems fairly obvious that he is into you, at the very least sexually, and got carried away both emotionally and, uh, physically . But passion can, well, come and go quickly in a man , and when the passion is spent, reduced internal pressure can trigger the resumption of normal brain function. At that point he may have suddenly rembered why he had prviously intended to take care of his own business before getting it on with you... the reasons he had intended to hold out longer and delay taking your relationship to a point of no return. Without having fully wrapped up his involvment with his ex previously, he probably now thinks he has blown his shot with you.
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