LoveTruthChaos Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Hey everyone, So, I'm at a really good stage in healing. I'm at the stage where I can shrug at 90% of anything to do with him. There's a little left to go, but I've been great for more than 2 weeks now, and I know the feeling is gonna last. If you all wondered how I did it? Absolute, 100% NO CONTACT, since the minute we broke up. It's the only way! We were in an LDR, so chances are I'll never see him ever again. This helps. We have more than 300 mutual friends, none of which would dare update me on what he's up to. With that many mutual friends and no direct news - I'm sure the rest of you can manage to ask your friends to respect your wishes! If you all find it impossible to stick to NC, well, I can't help you. And it doesn't look like you want to help yourself either. Yes, there are moments when you will cry and scream and ask 'why me?' and throw things and stomp your feet and rip up the photos and wish they would die and YES, I've done all that and more. Much more. IT DOES GET BETTER. I am 4 months post-breakup, and this is where I am. But I was very very strict with myself. I know that I'm a good person, I'm not worthless (although I sure as hell felt that I was a t the start), and I have so much going for me in my life, which is just about to seriously begin. When he called to break up with me, my last word was 'goodbye'. Today is the day that I emotionally said 'goodbye' to him. So, I may not be around these boards much anymore. To everyone still in a hell of pain, I wish you the best. I'll probably check in from time to time, but I think for now, I'm done. Thank you to everyone who gave me advice and was there for me. In my time of need, I felt blessed to have known you and share in your stories. See ya around
Div Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 I'm very happy for you and you should be proud. Now get out there and live your amazing new life!
BiAxident Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 300 mutual friends? Facebook technicalities aside, if I had 300 friends, I wouldn't need a romantic relationship!
mickleb Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Great news, LTC! Yours is an excellent perspective to offer those who doubt the power of NC, too. Now, get living! x
Thierro Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Good luck on your new journey. I wish you all the best. Indulge yourself
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