tomha Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Hi friends Well this is my question hope some one can give me advice or something ! My relation with my girl is normal , we don't see each other too much , because her family take care too much about her (go out too much is what i mean). So we've been planning about later engagement or marry .. we'd like to take the engagement and more years after college marry . but my situation it's hard for me Just see her 1 oh 2 days ... i don't like it . We study in different college's and sometimes i'm feel like .... wait too many years and later say No .. will be just waste the time and everything. She wants , but I don't know guys .. I love her so much , but my friends always complain about her .. "Every time you go out with her she wants this , that , those etc , just want time you can see her and she ask you buy that for me" And they say , don't marry with her . And 1 more thing she send me emails with stuff she wants , and she said: I WANT THAT BUY IT FOR ME. I don't know guys but i'm feel weird .... Thanks for read One more thing .... I'm not racist .... but she's asian .
deux ex machina Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 (edited) Okay. I'd suggest not buying her anything (at least not for a while), unless it's a special occasion. If you are taking her out on a date, that's a different story if you pay for whole or part of that. Perhaps you can see how things play out from there. Edited August 12, 2010 by deux ex machina
BiAxident Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 I can understand where studying at different colleges could make things difficult and cause you some pain. As for her wanting you to constantly buy her things, that isn't a good sign, especially considering you're in college and probably not making a lot of money. I would slow down on buying her so much stuff and see how she reacts. This is something you'll want to see before you are engaged to her, much less married.
bhaswati Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 Firstly you need to examine whether she is really with you because you buy her stuff or really cares about you? Also don't keep buying stuff just because you are scared to lose her if you don't. As for not meeting her frequently I know thats painful but this is the cyber-age! Also sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder!
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