Woggle Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 The worst is when a man women deem as undeserving actually does have a woman and a good life. They resent him so much for it. It's like certain men should just crawl under a rock and rot in the minds of some women.
harmfulsweetz Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 Men are generally more superficial than women are with respect to their partner's physical appearance. However, women are far, far more superficial about other things. For example, some women will refuse to date an otherwise seemingly attractive man just because they don't like the shoes he is wearing, he isn't tall enough (even if he is still taller than her), he doesn't make enough money, or isn't funny enough. How often do you hear men complaining about the way women dress unless the woman is wearing something totally outrageous? Read some of the threads here and you'll see many guys complaining about how they cannot get any women. I would bet that the reasons why women are rejecting those guys are highly superficial. How many women cannot get any men at all unless they are super fat or have some kind of deformity or serious personality disorder? See, the thing about money is that there's a very good reason we are drawn to guys who have it, and turned off by guys that don't. Although we have equality and all that, we still want to be provided for and protected, a guy with money can do these things. When you start a family, you want the man to provide because in all likelihood, you aren't going to want to work a full-time job and have a nanny look after your kids. Women want that security. It's not gold-digging, it's not superficial, it's practical. I think people throw around reasons for why they got rejected, sometimes it's simply a matter of not being attracted to that person. There's no great science to it, it's simply a matter of not being attracted. I was told by people and the guy himself, that he was interested in me. I wasn't interested in him. This is a young guy, who owns his own house etc, and is supposedly a very nice guy who would treat me very well. On paper he's a match made in heaven for me, he's young, he's on good money, but in person? I wasn't interested. Because I don't find him physically attractive.I'm not saying I'm drop dead gorgeous, and can have my pick of the litter, I'm not, and I can't, but I think I can get someone who I find physically attractive with those qualities too. Is that superficial? People toss the term shallow around like it means something. It doesn't, because everyone is shallow in one way or another. We have all rejected someone based on a superficial reason, even if it's not superficial to us.
USMCHokie Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 I love how OP states that men are shallow, women aren't, then says she wouldn't date a guy without a car. I wonder where OP went...
MrNate Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 I wonder where OP went... LOL. She was figured out, and consequently dashed into the shadows.
PJKino Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 (edited) lol at women not being superficial,just like Men women dont date guys they arent physically attracted to at all stop the bs.. Allot of women wont date a otherwise good guy because hes not another inch or two off the f'in ground and your gonna tell me looks dont matter much to women:laugh: Hell some women wont give a guy a chance because hes her height or an inch smaller in 4 or 5 inch heels Ive yet to see Men use an accesory or article of clothing they wear to decide wheter theyll date a women.. Edited August 13, 2010 by PJKino
a_woman Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 I agree with the OP. I did online dating and saw the most heinous guys looking for hot women. One guy was jobless, obese, still lived at home and was 50 but wanted a beautiful women. Many guys believe the theory that there are more women than men so beautiful women settle and it's not true. Yeah it cracks me up when I see them online, they don't even bother to shave for the photo or change out of their tracksuit haha. They might as well get an 'adopt me' tattoo. Pathetic.
Green Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 How many women do you think would find something wrong with a 25 year old man who lives at home with his parents while working a 25k a year job as a retail worker???? Now lets flip the scenario, how many men do you think would have a problem with a 25 year old girl who lived at home and worked retail?
Green Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 That's not bad but if the guy was say 35 in the same situation, that's bad. My point is a 25 year old girl who isn't fat will do pretty well with guys. A 25 year old guy who isn't fat means nothing. Is he tall? Does he work a good job? Is he strong? Does he wear nice clothes and have a nice place? What kind of car does he drive?
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