ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 I don't get it. If they are not attractive- Maybe they are very overweight, very bald, have bad teeth, bad hygiene or maybe its not just about your looks but you have no job or a bad personality...what makes them think they can have what they want? After reading some of the posts from men on here, I'm extremely curious what makes them think they could get someone with the standards they declare. You all must be very intelligent, rich, and very handsome to have some of the qualities you ask for.. For some of the guys to say they only date "model looking chicks" or "hot slender chicks" I take it you fit that mold?
mr.dream merchant Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 It's just preference. Everybody shoots high but alot of people miss and end up settling anyways. I prefer beautiful women who're in shape. Am I attractive and in shape? In shape yes, attractive - depends on who's looking at me.
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 It's just preference. Everybody shoots high but alot of people miss and end up settling anyways. I prefer beautiful women who're in shape. Am I attractive and in shape? In shape yes, attractive - depends on who's looking at me. Whats so funny is when I hear some of my male coworkers talking bout other women, some of the women they talk about wouldn't touch these guys with a ten foot pole.
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 U mad? Anywho, I agree that "individuals" who aren't much should not be as demanding when it comes to who they choose. This isn't a men only thing, btw.
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 U mad? Anywho, I agree that "individuals" who aren't much should not be as demanding when it comes to who they choose. This isn't a men only thing, btw. In my experience it is MOSTLY a man thing. I hear it at work and read about it here. Mad? No. Just find it nervy that some guys think they have a right to demand such things.
USMCHokie Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 I think it has a lot to do with confidence...these men feel good enough about themselves and think highly enough of themselves and their qualities that they believe they can have the "pick of the litter," as you say...and as you know, it only takes one... Of course some of these men could just be completely full of sh*t...
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 God forbid a man have standards. If you are attractive, rich, very intelligent, or have a great personality than yeah demanding what matches your caliber is understandable. I'm not talking standards I'm talking unrealistic demands from ugly, jobless, or no personality individuals.
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 In my experience it is MOSTLY a man thing. I hear it at work and read about it here. Well, okay. Just know that women are just as shallow as men in regards to this. You may not want to hear it, but it's how it is.
USMCHokie Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Hmmm, OP, does this same premise apply to unattractive women as well...?
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 Hmmm, OP, does this same premise apply to unattractive women as well...? sure it could, but I think women are def the minority when it comes to being shallow.
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 Well, okay. Just know that women are just as shallow as men in regards to this. You may not want to hear it, but it's how it is. I think Men hold the trophy for being more shallow.
Woggle Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 sure it could, but I think women are def the minority when it comes to being shallow. Not true at all. Women usually demand men out of their league while most men just want decent.
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 That's fine. Doesn't mean you're right, tho. I've seen women who were jobless, and average, demand that a guy have a car just to hang with them. It's not a one-sided thing.
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 Not true at all. Women usually demand men out of their league while most men just want decent. woggle, your posts say it all. please.
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 That's fine. Doesn't mean you're right, tho. I've seen women who were jobless, and average, demand that a guy have a car just to hang with them. It's not a one-sided thing. I demand a guy have a car, lol. Who wants to be driving a grown man around everywhere? not me. wtf:confused:
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Yeah, but the woman I was referring to had no car. Try again?
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 Yeah, but the woman I was referring to had no car. Try again? If one of them don't have a car, then how could they see each other?
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Public Transportation. It's great in my city. But anyway, you claim of women being less shallow than men is simply unfounded. Obviously you refuse to believe women could possibly be selfish in some aspect.
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 Public Transportation. It's great in my city. But anyway, you claim of women being less shallow than men is simply unfounded. Obviously you refuse to believe women could possibly be selfish in some aspect. I don't refuse to believe anything. I'm just saying women are the minority for being the shallow ones. Not saying we aren't out there
Woggle Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 I have had women refuse to date me because of my background despite the fact that I am doing very well right now so they can be just as shallow.
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 But they're not in the minority. For some reason, you believe a few posters (Lol) on LS, and some men at your job equals the majority of men. That's your first problem. The main is point is that men and women are equal in regards to being shallow. You don't have to agree with it. It's a fact.
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 I have had women refuse to date me because of my background despite the fact that I am doing very well right now so they can be just as shallow. I think they refuse to date you cause your personality sucks.
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 But they're not in the minority. For some reason, you believe a few posters (Lol) on LS, and some men at your job equals the majority of men. That's your first problem. The main is point is that men and women are equal in regards to being shallow. You don't have to agree with it. It's a fact. lol :laugh:
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