Men: how often do you meet/see women that you find sexually attractive?

[jamesum]

It's said so often that men are more visual. I think though, that the culture/values/maturity all play a role in that. Men have been culturally trained to *hunt* for women. Women have been culturally trained to be discerning.

Nah, its hormonal. Culture plays minor part.

 

Women who undergo testosterone patch therapy report heightened visual attraction and more aggressive and kinkier sexual appetite.

[SadandConfusedWA]

I guess what the point of this thread for me is: when I find a guy that I am physically attracted to, I want to hold on as it's so rare. I am even willing to overlook lots of other things.

 

Yet, if a guy is attracted to me on a physical level - it's completly meaningless from his prospective - after all, he is attracted to every second girl like that.

[MrNate]

I guess what the point of this thread for me is: when I find a guy that I am physically attracted to, I want to hold on as it's so rare. I am even willing to overlook lots of other things.

 

Yet, if a guy is attracted to me on a physical level - it's completly meaningless from his prospective - after all, he is attracted to every second girl like that.

 

Why would it be meaningless? Whether in a relationship or not, guys will always find other women attractive.

[USMCHokie]

Yet, if a guy is attracted to me on a physical level - it's completly meaningless from his prospective - after all, he is attracted to every second girl like that.

 

Yes, he's attracted to many women physically, but what will set you apart is that he's also attracted to you mentally and emotionally...which is MUCH harder to come by...

[Green]

The majority of women are sexually attractive. I'm not sexually attractive to anyone though.

 

Well thats a great attitude... but your attitude about yourself stinks. Please change that

 

Constantly. I could walk around the market and run into at least 3 girls that I'd want to bang. When I'm at college it's a non-stop parade of hunnies. Of course there's the occasional cow but they are easily overlooked.

 

As long as a girl is at least a 7 I'm happy. And there is no shortage of them.

 

Don't give girls numbers like "7." Simply realize that you are looking at an attractive girl that fully excites you.

 

I also see attractive girls all the time (mainly my beautiful gf) and all I ever did when I was single was asked myself "hot or not" to put it crudely. If a girl is physicaly attractive to me then its like she fufilled that part of it now its on to other parts of her life to keep her attractive. (u know silly stuff like if she smokes and more seriouse stuff like if she has a sense of humor)

 

I also believe I have a VERY high standard for beauty yet I still see pretty woman around all the time.

[homersheineken]

I'd say 1/3 of total overall women (over 18 right? )

[Green]

I'd say 1/3 of total overall women (over 18 right? )

 

haha mayb 1/3 her are over a certain age and under a certain age. And not FAT

[Mr White]

My male friend said that he finds 90% of the women sexually attractive

 

Obviously, it's different for females - at least for me, it VERY rarely happens and when it does I tend to put too much weight on it (because it could be years before it happens again!).

 

I am curious on how men see this issue. Note, I don't mean that you find a woman pretty, more that you feel attracted to her and want to f%^& her.

 

 

In the US - only about 20-30% of women (of fertile age) i see on a random day are attractive

In Europe - about 70-80%

In Asia - about 100%

 

So, your friend is probably correct, contingent on geography. Other than that, weight and putting minimum effort in looking nice are the determining factor. (Sadly, the US fails on both counts)

[Phateless]

My male friend said that he finds 90% of the women sexually attractive

 

Obviously, it's different for females - at least for me, it VERY rarely happens and when it does I tend to put too much weight on it (because it could be years before it happens again!).

 

I am curious on how men see this issue. Note, I don't mean that you find a woman pretty, more that you feel attracted to her and want to f%^& her.

 

Hmmm... I'd say it's every once in a while that I meet someone who, for some reason, I just want to tear her clothes off where she stands.

 

I meet a lot of women who are cute and pretty, and it's easy to feel attraction after spending time with someone, but that immediate, animalistic, sexual response.... It's not rare, but it's definitely not common.

[newdawn]

I guess what the point of this thread for me is: when I find a guy that I am physically attracted to, I want to hold on as it's so rare. I am even willing to overlook lots of other things.

 

Yet, if a guy is attracted to me on a physical level - it's completly meaningless from his prospective - after all, he is attracted to every second girl like that.

 

I know you're asking the guys, but if it's any help, I'm with you. I rarely, very rarely feel that type of attraction, and it does make one think, "hey, maybe this means something..." . But I'm starting to mistrust the chemistry thing. It's led me astray and when I noticed who they really were, eeek! outa there. Just because something is rare doesn't mean it's valuable. It might just be rare....

[SincereOnlineGuy]

When in a place where scores and scores of women from all over pass by, I'd guess that somewhere near 1 in 5 (20%) might inspire me to notice my sexual attraction to her. Now it could be only one angle that is especially delicious, but my interpretation of your question says that counts.

 

Those are just passing attractions never to be thought of again let alone pursued, but if the world stopped except for two people, then it would be game-on if she were agreeable.

 

LOL

 

The best thing about women is that the assortment keeps presenting itself to keep a guy's mind from dwelling too much on any one appearance in particular... which is a good thing, because it assures that those obsessions and long-time valuations that we have about the sexuality of certain women originate NOT in our eyes, but in some better, psychological place...

 

 

So today I took my offered percentage out into the world with me, and never really felt unconfident about my guess relating to what percentage of women I was sexually attracted to.

 

I did note passing examples of groups of females traveling together, nearly all of whom would be desired conquests given the opportunity, but I then knew I had to amend my response here just a bit.

 

While, say, 5 of a group of 6 I saw today were each individually desirable right then and there if the opportunity were mine to take, my eyes would scan the group and respond first to the one whose uniqueness was most prominent at the time. This would have me bedding just one, even though 19 additional women (and the other 5) had to parade separately in order to afford me the chance to rate 5 of this group of 6 as "sexually attractive" while staying at my "20%" guesstimate.

 

For the record, a great deal of that uniqueness is not genetic stuff, but instead how one dresses up or makes-up her genetic self.

 

Confidence, in part, is the understanding by a woman that she can and routinely does present herself at times both mentally and physically in ways that would land her in the "20%" bracket of some guy's onlooking eye.