kalikula Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 This is nothing like role play... I have no problem with playing pretend, at all. I don't have any problem with women who like pain or are submissive either. There is a difference between having them pretend that they don't like it, and what he said. It seems to me that he gets off on doing something sexual and degrading to women especially when they DON'T like it, and that is pretty creepy and sadistic to me.
Mad Max Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Remorse for what? Spilling a little semen on their makeup? Wanting his member to feel just a bit too big? Wow what a raging lunatic sociopath criminal. So I guess all women who like pain and are submissive pretty much have Stockholm Syndrome. Let's not even talk about people who like role play. Y'all are acting as if he said he likes raping these women. All he said is he likes a dash of sadism with a small side of power tripping. Relax. The issue isn't the women. The issue is him. This probably sounds terrible but I actually prefer it if the girl doesnt like having me cum on her face but lets me do it anyways. Doesn't care about the feelings of others. Sign #1. I rather enjoy your perspective. I'm not a fan of anal because of a few experiences. However I love to make the girl feel pain. Likes to see others in pain and inflict it. Sign #2. As someone that grew up with a sociopath, he has all the signs.
marsle85 Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 If I can sit on his face, he can cum on mine. As long as it's not preformed in the manner which has been discussed recently. And in my opinion, Tim's comments do reflect a degrading nature. There is a difference (WintersNightTraveler) between some fun roleplay or being turned on by power. His "small side of power tripping" seems to regularly involve the woman's lack of permission/shock.
WintersNightTraveler Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 This is nothing like role play... I have no problem with playing pretend, at all. I don't have any problem with women who like pain or are submissive either. There is a difference between having them pretend that they don't like it, and what he said. It seems to me that he gets off on doing something sexual and degrading to women especially when they DON'T like it, and that is pretty creepy and sadistic to me. Well I certainly agree it's sadistic. I just don't agree with pretty creepy. Now if he added a quick "on the first date" or something to it, then I'd agree with you. So it's probably a matter of degree. I think you're casting a much larger net than you realize by implying every guy who likes that kind of thing is a sociopath. I meant that it's like role play in that it's a fetish that can be judged harshly. Not that it's particularly similar, sexually.
WintersNightTraveler Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 If I can sit on his face, he can cum on mine. As long as it's not preformed in the manner which has been discussed recently. Yep. Women aren't the only gender who often do things they don't enjoy to accomodate their lovers. And in my opinion, Tim's comments do reflect a degrading nature. I never denied this. Plenty of women get off on that (and plenty don't). They aren't abnormal either (well some of them surely are, but not just due to that). The only thing I was pointing out was that this doesn't make him a sociopath (not as the term is commonly used, to indicate someone seriously beyond the social pale) There is a difference (WintersNightTraveler) between some fun roleplay or being turned on by power. I clarified, although prior to your post. I meant that it's like role play in that it's a fetish that can be judged harshly. Not that it's particularly similar, sexually. His "small side of power tripping" seems to regularly involve the woman's lack of permission/shock. This one I had already clarified: No it's not. Nowhere did I bring up non-consent.
mr.dream merchant Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Ahahaha, I think this is a troll, but oh well, I'll answer anyway. It depends on the woman really. I don't want him to get it in my eye, but otherwise this is fine with me. I've done it before. No big deal. Not even going to lie. This post gave me half wood.
marsle85 Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 I never denied this. Plenty of women get off on that (and plenty don't). They aren't abnormal either (well some of them surely are, but not just due to that). The only thing I was pointing out was that this doesn't make him a sociopath (not as the term is commonly used, to indicate someone seriously beyond the social pale) I actually agree with you on this, "sociopath" (from my experience and work with clinical disorders and psychology) is a stretch, atleast without a more thorough examination. But this may be because (like we mentioned) I have a more lax perspective on sex. While I -do- get off by a man being rough/dominant-- I'm also a pretty intuitive person, and if I felt insensitivity was the motivator of his fetish, I'd have a problem with it. Furthermore, Loveshack and its members are not entitled to give professional medical advice, plus I think we're being a little tough on him.
WintersNightTraveler Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 While I -do- get off by a man being rough/dominant-- [...] plus I think we're being a little tough on him. I think his posts are coming off strangely to people because they are rough without being dominant. But at least he likes Apollo Creed.
kalikula Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Whatever, I still think they are CREEPY because they show a total lack of disregard for the woman involved.. Rather than be with someone who ENJOYS it, he prefers someone who does not and merely puts up with it. I still think that's a little disturbing...
Engadget Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 What is with the trolling sex topics in dating? There is a Sex section.
WintersNightTraveler Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 What is with the trolling sex topics in dating? There is a Sex section. Agreed and I certainly didn't help, maybe a mod can move it?
Sphere Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 If I can sit on his face, he can cum on mine. As long as it's not preformed in the manner which has been discussed recently. I hardly think a woman sitting on my face is anything controversial. I quite enjoy it as a matter of fact. A dealbreaker for me is not giving me oral sex, I don't mind not having anal sex and I have interest in unloading onto a woman's pretty, little face, but if I go down on a girl, I want her to do the same. I think that's fair, don't you? Also, Tim is more than likely a troll from SoSuave, I sure recognise his typing style from there.
marsle85 Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 I hardly think a woman sitting on my face is anything controversial. I quite enjoy it as a matter of fact. A dealbreaker for me is not giving me oral sex, I don't mind not having anal sex and I have interest in unloading onto a woman's pretty, little face, but if I go down on a girl, I want her to do the same. I think that's fair, don't you? I totally think that's fair, which is why I mentioned it. Both are a little bit sticky, what's the big deal?
Sphere Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 I totally think that's fair, which is why I mentioned it. Both are a little bit sticky, what's the big deal? Correction, I meant to say I have no interest in coming on a girls face. I also find that with certain women if I'm deeply interested in them then I've love everything about our sexual experiences together, If I'm not deeply interested then I'll go out of my way to do things that she wants and likes. Things that I'd do with girls that I was deeply interested in just not with the same willingless and enthusiasm if that makes sense?
mr.dream merchant Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Really don't understand why people have such a hard time getting down and freaky with their loved ones. I mean, ****, my penis is already going into your vagina - what's the point of being prude when that's accomplished? I'll let my girl sit on my face, squirt on me, etc..nothing disgusting though (excrement and urine related). I think when a woman lets you ejaculate on her face, or anywhere on her body for that matter, it symbolizes how comfortable she is with you, and sharing her sexuality with you, and that alone turns me so the **** on. It's give and take.
carhill Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Everyone has a different perspective on sex and sexual styles and proclivities. If two partners have substantial differences in those, and they're irreconcilable, then it's not going to work out. Lamenting one person's 'inhibitions' or the other's 'sick fantasies' doesn't really do the dynamic justice. Move on to more compatible partners.
Author Tim7332 Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 I just wanted to clarify something so you can see that I'm not a sociopath. Even though I have some raunchy desires, if the girl ever said "stop that hurts" or asked me not to do something I would listen. I also said "a little pain". There's guys that get off on tying up and whipping women and ****. So give me a break.
Feelin Frisky Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 If I can sit on his face, he can cum on mine. As long as it's not preformed in the manner which has been discussed recently... Deal! Fair is fair.
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