cookie2 Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Well I seem to be coping quite well generally. I guess I've always moved quite quickly emotionally. I've pretty much adjusted to the single life again, although I think it'll be a while before I am interested in anyone else. I just want to be single for a while. I have rearranged the bedroom, sorted out my media server and bought new sunglasses. But the night-times are really getting to me! Last night I just could not sleep, I was just lying there pining. I know that even if she came begging I would not take her back. But I can't help missing her just being there at night, to cuddle or sleep on my chest or hold hands. It really sucks
czecze Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Well I seem to be coping quite well generally. I guess I've always moved quite quickly emotionally. I've pretty much adjusted to the single life again, although I think it'll be a while before I am interested in anyone else. I just want to be single for a while. I have rearranged the bedroom, sorted out my media server and bought new sunglasses. But the night-times are really getting to me! Last night I just could not sleep, I was just lying there pining. I know that even if she came begging I would not take her back. But I can't help missing her just being there at night, to cuddle or sleep on my chest or hold hands. It really sucks I know, no matter how you can rationalize to yourself, there is always a part that still hurts..esp sleepless nights.. what can you do but hang in there..knowing you are not alone.
bonpaw2008 Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Big hug Cook - it is the intimacy that is the hardest to lose, but you will get through it...can you go buy a dog?
Author cookie2 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 Yeah I know it'll get better... just got to me last night more than usual. I am more of a cat person really. I might get another at some point... but I am away at weekends a lot lately, so maybe in a month or two
bonpaw2008 Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Yeah I know it'll get better... just got to me last night more than usual. I am more of a cat person really. I might get another at some point... but I am away at weekends a lot lately, so maybe in a month or two I love cats, I had one that was about to turn 18 when he got sick, had to put him down in June.....while I was struggling with him not eating I missed a party that we were supposed to go to together, and I got punished by him not seeing me for two weeks....good times He hates cats, he hates everything really, so I may just become the crazy cat lady
Author cookie2 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 Punished for nursing a sick cat??! What a sicko. Hmm I could be a cat man... never really heard of one of those before... how about a Pumaman!!!
bonpaw2008 Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Punished for nursing a sick cat??! What a sicko. Hmm I could be a cat man... never really heard of one of those before... how about a Pumaman!!! LOVE IT!!! Time to change your name, maybe it will get you closer to being established ( me neither
welikeincrowds Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 I have rearranged the bedroom, sorted out my media server and bought new sunglasses. I know this is a serious topic, but this was really pretty cute.
Author cookie2 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 I know this is a serious topic, but this was really pretty cute. Hehe - well of course the first thing a newly single guy usually does is buy a bigger TV, right? But I already have a big one... Also I had eye surgery 6 months ago, when I had glasses I could never get decent shades. Now I can
GorillaTheater Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Do you work out regularly? I bet after an hour or two of pummeling the bejesus out of a heavy bag sleep may come a bit easier.
bonpaw2008 Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Hehe - well of course the first thing a newly single guy usually does is buy a bigger TV, right? But I already have a big one... Also I had eye surgery 6 months ago, when I had glasses I could never get decent shades. Now I can LOL now you are just braggin'
smk Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Cookie I know the feeling it sucks - and when I finally do fall asleep I seem to be waking up eVery few hours... But i guess over time it gets better... Good on you for doing the rearranging and obviously sorting out the tv - very important....
Author cookie2 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 @GT: yeah last night in fact... 15 mins cardio, pumped a load of iron then 10 lengths of the pool. I've only just started though (had a sprained foot til last week) so maybe it's just gettig into a rhythm... @bon: oh yeah baby @smk yeah I keep waking up at 5am and 7am too... it will have to get better soon else I'll be a zombie
smk Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Mine are 3 and 5:45.... I am turning into a zombie, even an 8 mile run doesn't seem to be getting me tired... I sit up in bed till silly 'o' clock most nights...
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