Dexter Morgan Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 I confronted her this morning before she started her work day and she claimed it was "nothing" and she wasn't with him. She claimed to be "vulnerable" during that time. boo effin hoo She also said that she didn't have sex with him at all. ya right. she must think you are stupid. hopefully you don't believe her crap. She just needed comfort during that hard time when SHE moved out which I found to be a load of **** since I needed some assurance and support too and held my honor to fight through this to make things better. We both have a dog which we really love and while I am stuck at home taking care of him and all the other **** I have to do around the house, she goes to another guy... you have to face the facts. this is a "woman" that you won't be able to depend on when either one of you has duties elsewhere. and the last thing our men and women in the service need is to have to worry about whether or not their so-called significant others are at home boning someone else. this is why I applaud the penalties for infidelity in the military. I straight walked away from her and she chased me through the parking lot. She even stopped me from getting in my car and driving off. She said she still cares about me but how?! How can I trust that or anything she says?! no, you can't....leave her in the dust to cry in her own beer. She'll get over it and do what she wants to do anyway which is run to another man. you deserve better....get rid of her.
2long Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 to be honest, I don't know what to believe at this point and there are no excuses. I straight walked away from her and she chased me through the parking lot. She even stopped me from getting in my car and driving off. She said she still cares about me but how?! How can I trust that or anything she says?! It takes a lot of work for a wayward 2 convince their BS that they can be trusted going forward. You have no kids. You aren't married. Wish her well, but say goodbye. If she REALLY is sincere about wanting 2 marry you, she'll stop making excuses RIGHT NOW, be completely open about what she's done and is doing, and will go 2 the ends of the earth 2 prove 2 you that she can be trusted. Even if she does all these things, it will take her a long time 2 earn your trust. And for you, the safest route is 2 cut your losses. -ol' 2long
wicar1 Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Leave her....she will keep on doing it forever
HawksRule Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 is it just me or is everyone on this board always so quick to say "leave the b8tch" it's never going to get any better, etc. etc. etc. As if people just end up in successful relationships without ever going through any problems whatsoever. Anyway, you know...you really have no idea how good or bad this whole "gentlemen" thing really is. Communication and Trust are two big things to make a relationship and marriage survive. I'm rebuilding mine with my fiancee right now. Why not try to rebuild yours before throwing it in the toilet. I mean you've been with this girl for 4 years right? So you've definitely invested in this girl. If it's salvageable why not work at it. And honestly it doesn't seem like she's openly said "i cheated on you" or you busted her in the act. So I wouldn't jump to any conclusions just yet.
Dexter Morgan Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 is it just me or is everyone on this board always so quick to say "leave the b8tch" it's never going to get any better, etc. etc. etc. As if people just end up in successful relationships without ever going through any problems whatsoever. run of the mill "problems" are one thing. having to deal with a significant other f###### other people.....quite a different matter. And its obvious you aren't reading what he is posting, because if ya did, you'd know just how despicable this "woman" is.
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