Fudged Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 So here is a little back story. Before I went to college, I was dating this girl. We ended up breaking up but still keeping in contact with each other. While in college, I met another girl, and we became very close. The new girl knew about my ex, but didn't know the extent of our relationship. In truth, my ex and I were products of unfortunate circumstances. We both had intense emotions for each other, but realized that we were in separate colleges and still young. So, for the duration of college, my ex and I were friends. She was free to do what she wanted and I was free to do what I wanted. We still remained close because we ran in the same social groups, My new friend was very attuned too the fact that I was hanging out with my ex, was often jealous, but she stayed with me. Two years later, I graduated college without a clue as to what to do with my relationships. My college friend lived in a different state, and we never truly ended our relationship. For the first few months we would meet up with each other and hang out, but soon after, our visits would grow farther apart. Our conversations on the phone started waning, and finally last year, we both decided it was time to go our separate ways. After a few months, I began to date my ex again. 5 months later, my ex and I are broken up. I go up to the city and meet my old college friend, and we hook up. I had an epiphany, realized that my ex was the one for me, and through some miracle we got back together. So now, 5 months after I saw my college friend she finds out that I was dating my ex when I hooked up with her. She was obviously pissed, cursed me out, told me she never wanted to speak to me again, and that this was "closure" for her. My issue is whether or not to tell my current girlfriend that I hooked up with another girl when she broke up with me, and whether or not I can expect the girl to contact my current girlfriend. Despite the fact that I am a pig, and a horrible person, I truly do love my current girlfriend, and I will marry her. It has been three days since my college friend found out...please give me some advice.
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