finding_serenity Posted August 9, 2010 Posted August 9, 2010 let me start by saying i have never ever taken a risk in my life and never ever loved anyone the way i loved my husband thats why i married him, inspite of evrybody's disapproval. he is a divorced man with 3 kids from 2 different women, one he married and adopted the daughter. i was single and just enjoying life as it is. i met him right after i got my visa, i wanted to explore so i left my country. it was a whirlwind romance and i dont know why i was so totally smitten over this man. but i was stupid or just naive i guess, i didnt know how to be a stepmom, how to deal with his exwife, his sister who doesnt recognize me as her sister-in-law, and most of all i dont know ive to be in parties where ive to mingle woth his exwife, exparents-in-laws and exbrother and sister-in-law.every time we go there im totally ignored and treated like i dont exist.i told my husband but he doesnt care.im so unhappy.it was my fault that i got myself into this mess, we have a 6 month old baby and i dont know what to do.btw, i didnt know stepfamilies or blended families can be tough as i came from a family with no divorcee.please advise me. p.s. hes also alcoholic and a chain smoker and verbally abuses me calling me dumb.
Author finding_serenity Posted August 9, 2010 Author Posted August 9, 2010 yeah..were newlyweds and i got pregnant right after we go married.shouldnt have, as my friends advised me.he just got his final divorce then he proposed.i was hesitant cause i still have plans but he made me chose.i was dumb.
Author finding_serenity Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 he is going away for a week and wanted his adopted teen daughter to stay with me and our baby.the problem is we don't really talk to each other.ive only met her several times.she invited me to her grad and bday party and totally ignored me.i told my hubby I don't think it's a good idea and that it's gonna be uncomfortable for me but he ignored what I said and told me I've to deal with it cause she's his daughter.i told him it's fine if he's home but it's a whole week and I'm just not ready to be left alone with her, as we have not established rapport yet.he called his daughter,made plans with her,in the end, I really pushed that I can't.he cancelled the plan,and told me I failed him and failed his daughter.i feel so bad, am I wrong to say what I feel?
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