bluryy Posted August 9, 2010 Posted August 9, 2010 21m here. Hello to all loveshack forumers. I decided to post this after reading through some of the threads and i believed that you guys are definitely going to help me through this one. I have been with my girlfriend for over a year. However, between this one year, it has been on and off. She talks about breaking up each time we quarrel. And recently, we sort of break off and patch back together again. She told me she's no longer interested in quarrels anymore. Yet, few days later, she quarrelled with me over some very small issues. She wanted me to put some picture on my display pic in friendster. But when i decided not to, she throws a tantrum and got angry. This is just one of the few instances where i find her really unreasonable and demanding. Is this due to the fact that i gave in to her each time we quarrel? Hence, she feels that she has the right to climb over my head and pee over me? I seriously don't get it. On one hand, she says she wants to be with me forever, she said she dont want any quarrels. Yet on the other hand, she was the one who initiated all this quarrel. She told me, when it comes to love, she's weak in will. Thus she talks about giving up each time. I seriously don't know what i should do anymore. Should i just let go, and let her understand that i gave in because i love her, and not let her take me for granted? most of the instances when we quarrel, it's always about her unhappy, or finding fault in me. I tried my best to salvage it, but it seems like she's always unhappy with me. What is this due to? Can anyone help me?
GrayClouds Posted August 9, 2010 Posted August 9, 2010 Relationship that in constantly on again, off again is not a healthy one, or one the will likely be successful. It seems like she likes the drama,and unless you like it to, it may be time to go out a experience some other girls for find out what it is like for someone who loves you more the they love drama.
Author bluryy Posted August 9, 2010 Author Posted August 9, 2010 Relationship that in constantly on again, off again is not a healthy one, or one the will likely be successful. It seems like she likes the drama,and unless you like it to, it may be time to go out a experience some other girls for find out what it is like for someone who loves you more the they love drama. so i should just move on? But the problem lies with her. She just doesnt seem to be into this relationship. She can actually tell her friend that, whether we patch or dont patch, life goes on. It goes to show alot right?
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