suddenlylost Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 This man created this entire other relationship, while living in my house and telling me he was committed to me for life, giving me a slow dump by telling me how emotionally distraught he was with all of the divorce and custody stuff coming to a head. Im actually looking back and seeing how I helped him prep for this other woman.I was always physically fit, and he asked me to help him. I made him follow this strict diet and exercise plan. Cooking all the foods for him, packing his lunches of completely 100%involved food, like making the salsa from scratch for the breakfast burrito. It was a Jillian Michaels diet that was so involved it took 3-4 hours of prep time in the evening plus exercising. He dropped 30 pounds and looked great. I lost 15 I couldnt afford to lose, then another 10 from the stress from all of this, now I look like a medical patient. I gave him a free fat camp. I do believe now he was with her for months before ending things with me. I am feeling the need to stop him in some way from having such a smooth transition of ending a 4 year realitionship at the same time starting something new and exciting. He sure has talent. All those intense feelings and he didnt go crazy.He doesnt even bother to waste his time on missing me. Or bother to think about what this feels like for me. I want to now tell all his dirty little secrets I kept safe for all these years. I want everyone to know what he did. He doesnt come across to people like a sleeze bag. He comes across like the most friendly guy. A guy who would do anything for anyone...even a stranger. He is always happy and makes you feel comfortable and like he is interested in your story from the minute he meets you. He does this everywhere he goes. he can go into a grocery store and come out with a friend hes offered to help in some way. I want to somehow see to it that hes not so happy and all in love and excited to be starting a new relationship right now. I want him to feel like he did something wrong.I want him to pay. Im thinking of so many things
thrownaway Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 It's been a few weeks since you wrote this. How are you doing? You didn't do anything stupid, did you?
hopesndreams Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 giving me a slow dump by telling me how emotionally distraught he was with all of the divorce and custody stuff coming to a head. I am feeling the need to stop him in some way from having such a smooth transition of ending a 4 year realitionship at the same time starting something new and exciting Were you once his OW? If not, you were blindsided. Many of us on these boards have been. He sounds like a narcissist and you are better of without him. Be thankful you didn't have children with this thing. No need to plot revenge, those 2 will get what's coming to them, and in time, you won't care anyway.
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