kayla899 Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 II met this guy at work. He asked me for my number and we started gettin real close, he has his own place, and always promised to take me there and every time we made plans he would make an excuse, so we always ended up hanging out at my house. He wouldnt call or come over when he said he would, which I thought weird. He said he lived by himself. We ended up having a sexual relationship. He told me he was 25, and had one kid. Last night we were hanging out and my phone rings. It ended up being HIS WIFE who is 6 months pregnant with his kid. He denied bein married, said it was his babys mom, and that she was crazy. That he wouldnt hurt me like that....I knew he was lying, and his wife asked where I lived so I told her, Im NOT down with lying cheatin as*holes! So she ended up comin to my house with her brother, her brother ended up punchin this guy in his face and all hell broke loose. I found out that he was married has a kid on the way, and he doesnt only have 1 kid, he has 3. Not only that, but he lied about his age. He is not 25, hes 28. They have been together 10 years. He sat at my house swearing on his daughters life he wasnt married, even after he was caught. His wife called me today told me thank you, and that they were going to work things out! I also found out hes telling her Im a crackhead (never touched that stuff in my life) and talkin all this crap on me. What a scumbag. Im in awe. How could this be happening. I feel so dirty, he was sleeping with her, then comin to my house and sleeping with me. I looked up on google signs of a psycopath, and hes definantly that. He lied so much to not only me, but his wife of ten years. It just shows what kind of person he is. Im hating myself that I was fooled by him and his manipulative ways...
bentnotbroken Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 II met this guy at work. He asked me for my number and we started gettin real close, he has his own place, and always promised to take me there and every time we made plans he would make an excuse, so we always ended up hanging out at my house. He wouldnt call or come over when he said he would, which I thought weird. He said he lived by himself. We ended up having a sexual relationship. He told me he was 25, and had one kid. Last night we were hanging out and my phone rings. It ended up being HIS WIFE who is 6 months pregnant with his kid. He denied bein married, said it was his babys mom, and that she was crazy. That he wouldnt hurt me like that....I knew he was lying, and his wife asked where I lived so I told her, Im NOT down with lying cheatin as*holes! So she ended up comin to my house with her brother, her brother ended up punchin this guy in his face and all hell broke loose. I found out that he was married has a kid on the way, and he doesnt only have 1 kid, he has 3. Not only that, but he lied about his age. He is not 25, hes 28. They have been together 10 years. He sat at my house swearing on his daughters life he wasnt married, even after he was caught. His wife called me today told me thank you, and that they were going to work things out! I also found out hes telling her Im a crackhead (never touched that stuff in my life) and talkin all this crap on me. What a scumbag. Im in awe. How could this be happening. I feel so dirty, he was sleeping with her, then comin to my house and sleeping with me. I looked up on google signs of a psycopath, and hes definantly that. He lied so much to not only me, but his wife of ten years. It just shows what kind of person he is. Im hating myself that I was fooled by him and his manipulative ways... Liar doesn't always = psychopath. You are lucky you found out when you did. Now get as far away from him(and her) as you can. Get tested for STD's(he is a repeater). Change your number and thank the good Lord. Being lied to gives you no reason to hate yourself, no more than it should his wife. He should fear her brother.
White Flower Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Hugs Kayla. So sorry to hear about your experience. Don't go back to him. Trust me, he'll be back.
Silly_Girl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Thank heavens you found out now before there was any great investment or making of plans... Yep he's a total scumbag, and he likely will try and convince you he's misunderstood blah blah blah. Be ready to send him packing. Hope you are feeling better as each day passes.
WalkInThePark Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Don't blame yourself. There are guys out who are experts at telling lies. I met once such a con artist. He was also leading a double life. He was living together with his girlfriend but had kept his own house. So I saw him either in his own house or at my place. In his own house there was no trace of a woman, it was the typical bachelor's place. But it did not take long before I had the feeling that something was not right. And this guy had the bad luck that I have a very good memory and had registered everything he ever told me. That's how I managed to trace his ex-wife and she told me how this guy really was. Now that was a psychopath! Via his ex-wife I found out where he really lived with his girlfriend. Two weeks later, when he was abroad, I paid her a visit and showed her mails and text messages. She immediately called his father and told him to get con artist's stuff. She threw him out. Afterwards he called me to tell me that I "had destroyed his life."
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