moosegreen Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 this girl was truly the first girl i loved...but after a while of us being together she started treatin me poorly by ditchin me, only wanting to hang out for sex, not wanting to do anything ever and lots lots more so i called it off and found another girl thats really nice living a good life and only hits the joint every 3 months or so...she really likes me and i really like her but i cant stop thinkin about my ex...why and what can i do to help/stop it
EthanH Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 People always crave what they can't have. Maybe you did like her more than you realised at the time and being with this new girl might have kinda proved that to you. But look at what you said in your post, she treated you badly, and only wanted you for sex and yet you still miss her? Sometimes the human brain has a terrible way of making us want things even when they aren't good for us. Luckily, we also have the ability to take a step back and look at things logically, dismiss our emotional smog, and re-evaluate things... ultimately, she wasn't making you happy, and so it is a good thing that you got out. Learn from it and move on. Also the fact that you seem to think it is noteworthy that your current gf only smokes occasionally would seem to suggest that in comparison, your ex was a big stoner... another reason to steer clear from her.
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