spriggig Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 Are women ALWAYS conscious of how much cleavage they are showing?
2sunny Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 nope. we need you men to point that out for us! ahahaha
phineas Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 Yes. Considering the fact that every woman I know will look daggers at any other woman that is showing more cleavage than her I am convinced every woman knows just how much boob she is showing when she leaves the house.
2sunny Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 when i leave the house, sure... but he specifically asked if i am ALWAYS aware... so i stand firm with my no answer. and i don't always notice other women either... unless they are showing WAY too much... meaning - attention grabbing cleavage...
phineas Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 when i leave the house, sure... but he specifically asked if i am ALWAYS aware... so i stand firm with my no answer. and i don't always notice other women either... unless they are showing WAY too much... meaning - attention grabbing cleavage... Ah, you mean you don't notice a "wardrobe malfunction". ok.
that girl Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 No. Of course I look in the mirror when I leave the house, but things can shift during the day or when I lean over. In general, I have an idea of how much I'm showing but more than once I've realized a top needs to be worn with a cami after I've worn it a few times. Considering the fact that every woman I know will look daggers at any other woman that is showing more cleavage than her Sure they do.
Confusedalways Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 definitely not always. Sometimes I look down in the middle of the day or pass a mirror and think "wow... this shows a lot more than I remembered!"
kalikula Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 No, I always have cleavage and sometimes it hangs out more than it does when I look in the mirror if my shirt is stretchy...
Feelin Frisky Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 That's kind of a two edged question. Those who go out in something that features cleavage are of course always aware of that choice. But the way you phrase the question it could be interpretted as are women always thinking about their own cleavage once they do go out in something revealing. I doubt that once the decision is made to show cleave that they remain somehow self conscious of it except for what at least one lady said about having someone around who is literally "over the top" with her buzoomz. I think that would tend to make anyone else that decided to show some feel neutralized. But as for us men, or at least me, it's all good to see female attributes nicely framed.
Yamaha Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 Yes. They look at their clothes and know the message they are presenting.
bac Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 I do not think that most women are self-aware about their sex appeal especially very young girls. IMO they believe that they look just beautiful but in reality they look too too sexy showing too much cleavage, nude legs and other their sexy parts. I guess when they look in the mirror, they see females parts so, they do not feel turned on by the stuff. IMO, some females have no idea that what they show to men is too strong.
Author spriggig Posted August 7, 2010 Author Posted August 7, 2010 ...some females have no idea that what they show to men is too strong. Whoa, whoa, whoa! I wasn't complaining.
Yamaha Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 I do not think that most women are self-aware about their sex appeal especially very young girls. IMO they believe that they look just beautiful but in reality they look too too sexy showing too much cleavage, nude legs and other their sexy parts. I guess when they look in the mirror, they see females parts so, they do not feel turned on by the stuff. IMO, some females have no idea that what they show to men is too strong. Sorry, but I call this BS. Just another, "poor little me. I had no idea I was being sexy to men".
brainygirl Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 Do I know when I am wearing a shirt that's low cut? Yes. Do I know if its slipped down a little and showing TOO much? I might not. I tend to avoid ultra low cut and ultra tight clothes. I know I'd get more male attention if I wore things like that, but I personally am not comfortable in that context.
Shakz Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 Why is it that women can still display their decolletage but it's no longer fashionable for men to wear the codpiece?
brainygirl Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 Why is it that women can still display their decolletage but it's no longer fashionable for men to wear the codpiece? There's no law against a codpiece, so go ahead if that's what you want. Just don't complain about the results.
Serenitynow Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 I constantly see women in public looking down at their girls to make sure everything is ok. Obviously the less revealing the less need to check, but it does make me chuckle to see them verify everything is ok .
Enchanted Girl Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 (edited) Honestly, I think I have no idea. I dress very modestly or so I believe I do. I'm pretty reserved in this area and I got it from my parents really. They taught me to be this way. Anyway, I'm around my parents a lot and sometimes I go out in public (especially when it's church) thinking that I am wearing something modest and my parents tell me afterwards that I was showing cleavage and things. And I go,"I was?" And that I need to stop so I don't give the wrong impression at church, which I never mean to do. My boyfriend, when he is here (I'm in an LDR), sometimes tells me that some of my tops show cleavage and gets overexcited about it. I have a lot v-neck shirts and when I look in the mirror I either see nothing or hardly anything because I stand up really straight, but when I go out and live life, apparently, I accidentally show more, I guess because I'm not standing perfectly straight all the time and am bending over sometimes and stuff. I don't know. I really don't think women know how much cleavage they are showing all the time, otherwise there would be no wardrobe malfunctions and things. Because they would realize it the second it happened. I like how the men in this thread keep claiming that they know what it's like to have boobs, though. Edited August 7, 2010 by Enchanted Girl
alphamale Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 Are women ALWAYS conscious of how much cleavage they are showing? yes they are
Enchanted Girl Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 And I repeat . . . I like how the men in this thread keep claiming that they know what it's like to have boobs. How about us girls make a thread telling the guys what it's like to have a penis? I'm sure I know all about it.
You Go Girl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 If it's a loose round or v-neck shirt we probably have no idea how much cleavage is going to show when we bend down. I can't remember ever looking at myself in the mirror and doing anything but standing up straight with good posture to see how I look in something. I do remember once being told that somebody could see a lot more than I realized would show when I bent over...maybe I'm naive in this area. Never considered bending down in a top in front of the mirror. But I tend to dress modestly anyway.
Yamaha Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 This was not about bending over and seeing a glimpse but women who go out knowing they are showing cleavage. Women who dress to show cleavage know exactly what they are doing and that men are attracted to them.
zengirl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 (edited) Are women ALWAYS conscious of how much cleavage they are showing? Not entirely. At least, I'm not. I try not to show any, personally, especially in daytime, decent places, but sometimes I'll catch myself in a shirt that has a hint of it at work. I'm thin but not flat-chested, so it'd take some major conscious effort to never show cleavage unless I only stuck to high-necked shirts, which aren't always the style I want or comfy in hot weather. That said, it depends on the particular amount you mean. I think if you're seeing very visible, significant cleavage. . . the woman is aware. Unless it seems to be a wardrobe malfunction and/or she's a particularly busty gal. Some gals have a hard time. But if a gal is wearing a deep-V or something, she's made a conscious choice to show it off. But a small amount might be incidental/accidental. Edited August 8, 2010 by zengirl
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