Windblue Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 hello everyone, Ive posted here before and the last time I posted I wanted advice...this time I'd just like someone to liste Sn...you can comment if you'd like but Im doing this to get if off my chest...|I would like advice again, but since I didn't take it last time you will only use that against me. So I guess Im just venting... So my guy (MM) now loves me or so he says he does. He hasn't moved or divorced, we're still working on paperwork (a very touchy and difficult subject) if we go about things the wrong way he could be deported at this point...no way around it. I went with him and verified info myself. Yet, he still claims his love for me and does everything. I had surgery and he was there...months ago...and now he's still here. he hasn't left, it's been months...but he contacts his son and she contacts him to pay bills...but no come home...or bit** ing about where he has been when he goes by there. She came by his job a few times..but not about him staying away. Im beginning to think somewhat that maybe the relationship is what he says. His mother and sister call me and check on me...and he's just here...I've asked him about home...told him he should go..and still he didn't want leave me..the last time he left here...he didn't hear from me for the whole time, until he came back...however, he still has not left. It's been 9 months now. Im just not sure if I should be happy and relax...or stay on alert because he could still leave me...so confused... thank you to anyone who read this...for your time...WB
bentnotbroken Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 Read it. I'm pretty sure she isn't the only one b**ching. I wouldn't want his behind home with me either. She seems like she is thinking straight to me.
Author Windblue Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 thinking straight...ha...yeah about that money because he still pays certain bills over there, but all points out to him being with me. I've come to the conclusion to see this thing through. who knows...
Mombot Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Do you really enjoy him being there? Are you smiling?
Author Windblue Posted August 20, 2010 Author Posted August 20, 2010 yes I am actually. Sometimes I don't want to be as happy as I am ( I know that sounds strange) but I've told him I'm not happy...and until the big things are taken care of, he's trying to make sure that I am happy and comfortable until then. I am not saying that he or I are right for this. But, Im being shown actions, instead of hearing words.
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