bluesc Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 A couple of nights ago, I decided to go NC because I was sick of getting hurt, I explained it all to her, and she promised that she wasn't going to sleep with this guy that she was going to see the next day, she said "I wouldn't hurt you like that", I didn't believe her, I said goodbye. The next day I went on msn to delete her, before I could, she said "Hi, I didn't sleep with him by the way", I said goodbye, and deleted her. Later on that night, she sent me a text "Considering we're not talking anymore, I did have sex with him earlier, and he was better than you:)". She has done this kind of thing in the past, when my nan died, I was a mess, I called her becuase she was always good to talk to, she said "I'm busy, you'll have to wait a few hours if you want to talk to me about it", that night, she ran off and had sex with someone she also promised she wouldn't the night before. Why would she do this? I haven't done anything to upset her, I've tried really hard to be a good friend. She was so caring and sweet when we were together, I don't understand how she can be this way. It's been 3 months since she broke up with me, I thought I was making some progress in terms of getting over her, but now I feel completely empty again.
cdt76 Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 Because she is a mean and unworthy piece of trash. She is a whore and obviously throwing herself at anyone and everyone to make herself feel better. Delete her. She is no good. No good at all. She is evil and you don't want that in your life. Would you want her back after sleeping with all these dudes?
Chinook Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 Oh why oh why would you let yourself get treated this way...? Please. For your self-respect and your own sanity - get shot of her pronto. I'm not normally a hard and strict enforcer of the NC rule... but in your case, with such a poisonous person, that's the only way I see you healing. Ever. So no contact means, no emails, no texts, no msn or IM, no facebook, no myspace, no bebo or whatever else networking site it is you use, no talking to friends about her, no going to places she goes to, no smoke signals, no carrier pigeons, no pretending to yourself 'I'll just check this one time' and then realising you're not letting go. No contact means putting everything you did with her, into a mental and physical box... and putting it away from yourself and giving yourself time to heal. The longer you continue contact, the longer it will hurt. Simple as that.
silic0ntoad Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 The best way to get rid of one like this is to use the "C" bomb. Trust me. She'll be gone for good and you can heal. apply in liberal doses.
HopeLove Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 She might have been nice to you when you were together but what she did was certainly not nice, that was mean. There's no reason for being so cruel. Start NC. Hopefully at some point you'll move one. Be strong.
cookie2 Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 Because she is a mean and unworthy piece of trash. She is a whore and obviously throwing herself at anyone and everyone to make herself feel better. Delete her. She is no good. No good at all. She is evil and you don't want that in your life. Would you want her back after sleeping with all these dudes? /signed !!
quankanne Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 because she's a selfish little shxt who has nothing better to do than mindf**k you, knowing she'll be successful because you're too nice to burn any bridges. as harsh as it sounds, I agree with cdt ... bearing in mind silicon's advice when you *really* need to exorcise that demon. You can never expect to offer friendship to someone who delights in stabbing you in the gut every chance she gets.
bonpaw2008 Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 She is a heinous stupid bitch and you should thank your stars that you are rid of her....all exes can burn in hell today
TaraMaiden Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 Immature, idiotic, puerile and really, really juvenile. She deserves everything she gets, and boy, will she ever get some. And not in a nice way. Delete, erase, ignore, do not read, respond, reply or react. leave her. She's worthless, and has a nasty streak that's just breathtaking. What a piece of work.....
DenverBachelor Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 The best way to get rid of one like this is to use the "C" bomb. Trust me. She'll be gone for good and you can heal. apply in liberal doses. I don't think that word has the same impact in England. Maybe fanny? I have no idea -- but whatever the word, she's a worthless whore.
Username37 Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 She's trash that the trash man forgot to pick up. The trash man also has to pick up my ex
cookie2 Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 I don't think that word has the same impact in England. Maybe fanny? I have no idea -- but whatever the word, she's a worthless whore. Oh, yes it definitely does!! Fanny is very mild, female version of willy.
mike5770 Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 Just remember if she is your ex you have probably already done everything sexual to her already that any other man on the planet could do and so what if she decides to screw the entire football team......been there done that!! It works for me when I run in to my exes with there goober new b friends! I wamy yo pull them aside and compare notes lol...
smk Posted August 7, 2010 Posted August 7, 2010 Mate she isn't worth your time... As everyone said apply the "c" liberally and forget about her... She seems like a complete waste of space...
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