Why were we so blind and not see this coming? Any thoughts ! Lets just share here.

[mannpho]

I have posted on several occasions so many things about this breakup and it dawned on me. We are not stupid, ignorant, pathetic. Why didn't we see this coming? Were we blind, not willing to accept that fact they didn't care for us?

 

Are we addicts to a bad drug and couldn't simply walk away. I always felt and was even told by some of her friends she wasn't into me she liked me but that I wasnt the guy for her. In spite of that and her constantly cruising dating sites I hung in thinking she would change.

 

It's now 4 weeks and I still miss her, I crave for her embrace, her hand.

 

Sick I know.

[skydiveaddict]

It's not sick by any means. As for my breakup, it was from completely out of the blue. I never had a clue that it was coming. I got home from the war and two weeks later she quit calling, would not see or speak to me at all. I never got even a whiff as to why. Ten months later and it still hurts like hell. I know how you feel

[mannpho]

Do they even think of us? Good or bad? Cowards as they are they cant even stop and think and simply send an email and just say Im so sorry for the pain and how I have altered your being, your soul to it's core.

 

I am sorry and be well. That would be have shown some compassion.

 

Dirtballs!

[skydiveaddict]

Do they even think of us? Good or bad? Cowards as they are they cant even stop and think and simply send an email and just say Im so sorry for the pain and how I have altered your being, your soul to it's core.

 

I am sorry and be well. That would be have shown some compassion.

 

Dirtballs!

 

 

I doubt very much if I ever cross her mind, then again I guess it's none of my business

[mannpho]

It's her bday and I'm hurting so much that I'm just so sad I'm not with her on her special day. I don't know if I should email her.

 

I guess NC NC NC

 

This hurts so much today

[cookie2]

Shouldn't she be the one who's sad you're not with her? It's not your special day any more.

[mannpho]

August 6th comes and yes people I did receive a text from her. Simple and to the point. Thank you for the card it was nice. I didn't respond back at all. I had a date with a lady on Saturday I was feeling good about myself and asked her out on Sunday for a boat ride. Both days I called her by my ex's name. That sucked. Here I am Sunday night in so much pain thinking about my ex and trying so much to ward off the need to text her. I know that she was just being cordial or was she looking for me to call? I didn't respond to her text even though I wanted too.

 

I had in my head this fantasy she would say please call or she would call and say lets have coffee and talk.

 

I guess that is what NC is all about. I dont know what else to do tonight just fight off the urge.

 

It sucks! When your in love with someone that doesn't love you back. Has anyone had a second chance and it worked out?

[bonpaw2008]

August 6th comes and yes people I did receive a text from her. Simple and to the point. Thank you for the card it was nice. I didn't respond back at all. I had a date with a lady on Saturday I was feeling good about myself and asked her out on Sunday for a boat ride. Both days I called her by my ex's name. That sucked. Here I am Sunday night in so much pain thinking about my ex and trying so much to ward off the need to text her. I know that she was just being cordial or was she looking for me to call? I didn't respond to her text even though I wanted too.

 

I had in my head this fantasy she would say please call or she would call and say lets have coffee and talk.

 

I guess that is what NC is all about. I dont know what else to do tonight just fight off the urge.

 

It sucks! When your in love with someone that doesn't love you back. Has anyone had a second chance and it worked out?

 

Mann - I think instead of asking if second chances work, you need to take a step back. This lady doesn't want to be with you. I know it hurts but it is the truth.

 

You say such horrible things about her, how she just used you to take her out, etc. Why do you pine so much for someone like that? You deserve so much better.

 

Listen, I think that you are still having issues from the past, and I think you need to talk to someone professionally. I see you stuck in this same rut of talking badly about this girl but in the same breath saying that you are going to contact her and beg her to come back.....this is about you and getting yourself under control. You need to get yourself back, work through your issues instead of worrying about being with someone.

 

I wish you luck and healing soon.....