pandagirl Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 So, I'm on Day 5/6 of a 10 day visit with my boyfriend who I hadn't seen in 2 months. It's been tough so far, but getting better. Why "tough"? Well, the whole reason we waited 2 months to see each other (the longest we've gone) is because he was working on two work deadlines, and didn't want me to come when he was working so much. He was supposed to be done when I came, but it got extended so basically since I got here he's been working. And I mean WORKING. Like one night he didn't even come to bed because he was working ALL night. Because of that (and my herpes outbreak), any sexual activity has been non-existent. Yes, he is affectionate, but he seems to have zero interest in me in THAT way. I brought it up to him and he said, "Baby, I am so tired I don't feel sexual at all." In my head, I'm like, "You haven't seen me in TWO MONTHS!" I guess my ego is a bit bruised. That being said, he should be done with the project today, so we have all weekend to be together and hopefully get back on track. Don't get me wrong, we're having a great time together, but it's like he's only been half-way present because of work and lack of sleep. Ugh, I guess I'm just frustrated that visions of a romantic trip were thwarted by his work!
carvidep Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 aww boo that's no fun. I'm sure that after he gets a good night of rest he'll be all yours and even more "excited" than before!
Author pandagirl Posted August 5, 2010 Author Posted August 5, 2010 haha. gosh, i HOPE so! It just sucks because we tried to plan around this so we could avoid this sort of situation, but best laid plans...
HeavenOrHell Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 How disappointing I would feel pretty gutted to be honest. I hope things improve hun
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