Kman21 Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 Hello its been almost 3 years and I am not still over her. I wish I did not have to come to the break-up section in loveshack again... Long story short because I do not want to overwhelm you guys with details..she broke up with me because she was not feeling the same towards me as before. We were very young when were together ( we are both 21 now). I have not talked to her about a year for "NC". Now recently I checked her facebook and now added her. I dunno why I did that, but I dont know if I can handle her status updates and posts on my page. What I am pondering about is why I cant get over her and move on. I did not get into a relationship since we broke up..I am not 100% over her yet but I am getting there. Its bothering me that I have not healed fully yet. I personally believe that if I found someone I probably get over her completely and forget about her. But should I look for someone just to get over her and move on? Is that something wrong?
Notsogood Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 Hi Kman I'm in the exact same position except its only been a bit over a year since the break up for me. I've followed all the rules of NC for 10-11 months now and also have not been in a relationship since. It sucks but the only thing we can hope for is that it passes with time. How long were you with your ex for? For me, it was 5 and half years, so maybe I still have a long way to go to fully heal. I have also thought about whether i would get over her faster if I was in another relationship. Over the past year I have met a few people who I could definitely be in a relationship with but I think the fear of getting hurt again has held me back. I think if you feel the connection with someone, just go with the flow and it should work out. For me, I was still holding back so maybe I'm not ready for another relationship yet - in your case it may be different. I wish you all the best and just know that you are not alone.
cavedweller Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 There are only two ways to heal a broken heart: 1..Get back together.. or 2..Find another... my 2 cents
Author Kman21 Posted August 5, 2010 Author Posted August 5, 2010 I have been with her for about two years...and I felt the same way as u did about not trusting but I'm over that at this point. It would be just easier to move on if I found someone else... now I dunno if I did a good thing adding her on Facebook.
skydiveaddict Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 Hello its been almost 3 years and I am not still over her. I wish I did not have to come to the break-up section in loveshack again... Long story short because I do not want to overwhelm you guys with details..she broke up with me because she was not feeling the same towards me as before. We were very young when were together ( we are both 21 now). I have not talked to her about a year for "NC". Now recently I checked her facebook and now added her. I dunno why I did that, but I dont know if I can handle her status updates and posts on my page. What I am pondering about is why I cant get over her and move on. I did not get into a relationship since we broke up..I am not 100% over her yet but I am getting there. Its bothering me that I have not healed fully yet. I personally believe that if I found someone I probably get over her completely and forget about her. But should I look for someone just to get over her and move on? Is that something wrong? Never look for someone else to supply your happiness. Be happy with who you are first and the rest will fall into place
Beeotch Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 Never look for someone else to supply your happiness. Be happy with who you are first and the rest will fall into place I definitely Cosign
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