What to think

[tpopcaz]

Ok well a couple weeks ago I had posted about me and my girlfriend of three years breaking up and going through a hard time. Everytime we talked for the last week it seemed like all we did was push each others buttons and argue. So earlier this week we agreed to stop giving each other **** about what we are doing with our lives. So I decided that I wouldnt bug her and if she wanted to talk she could talk to me first. At the same time which I didn't know my friend was talking to her about me and her because thats who I goto with my problems. Well the first day they talked she told him her only friend was craig who was the guy shes ben hanging out with. The next day she talks to me and tells me that no matter how much we argue I'm the only one that she can be pissed off and still be considered a real friend. The next day she tells him that she knows I miss him, but I've changed. I go on to here from her how I can never change my ways of how I am for better or worse. So shes been part of my family for the last three years and my nephews love her. They live across the street from me and have been begging her to come visit. So she tells me that she will try when she gets a break tomorrow to go visit and my 3 year old nephew calls her his girlfriend and told me I couldnt go over because he wouldnt come. So as a joke I say I cant go over when your there and she ask why. But she tells my friend today shes going see them and is iffy if she will see me, but says she probably will come say Hi because shes not a bitch. So what I'm confused about I guess why does she tell me one thing,but then tell my friend something else. Like I told her yesterday I got use to her not wantin to hang out its not that big of a deal like I use to make it, and she tells me to think what I want. So is she lieing to me or him, or can she still be confused. I mean she tells him these things, but at the same time some days I get random text messages like I went eat here and the have our favorite thing back I thought that would make you smile it made me smile. So if anyone could just tell me what they think good or bad I would love advice.

[skydiveaddict]

Simply stay out of her life and have no more contact with her. simple as that

[tpopcaz]

and what will that do. it wont heal nothing I've tried. We are friends no matter how crappy it is we still talk about things no one else knows. I'm just wondering why is she telling us different things, can she be confused?