A girl wouldn't respond to a text after the 1st date if she wasnt interested right?

[zengirl]

Well it appears that its over and I sent a text saying "what is the best time to reach u by phone". Her response was sorry my days are so long and I have to work all weekend.

So I'm not sending her any more texts. I'm done. And I'm not going to do what I did in the past and send a message like-"you like oral sex"

 

So my last question is why respond at all if she is not interested? Damm I hate dating

 

Why?

 

1. To be polite or "nice."

 

2. She was interested, or at least a little, but she isn't now. Interest really does fade! I've gone off a date definitely wanting to see a guy and he's waited long enough that I've (a) met someone I liked better, (b) decided I didn't really like him so much, or © gotten busy or wrapped up in my own personal stuff. It all happens. Especially if a girl comes off the date thinking maybe she'd like to see the fellow again, but she's not sure.

[carhill]

OP, the best way IMO to handle this is to do some of it yourself. Fade out, get busy, leave girls hanging. Just do it. Instead of 'dating sucks', 'life is great'. Each dynamic is really good information. Learn from it. Get picky. Someone has to *earn* the privilege of your kind and caring company. Don't settle for anything less

[tami-chan]

Well it appears that its over and I sent a text saying "what is the best time to reach u by phone". Her response was sorry my days are so long and I have to work all weekend.

 

wait....this could also mean..."I cannot give you a set time because I am a doctor and my hours are long and unpredictable...so just call whenever! Oh, and leave a message, because if you do not leave a message then whatever your reason for calling must not have been that important.

 

So my last question is why respond at all if she is not interested? Damm I hate dating

 

Well, if you do not want to pursue...then don't respond.